Homos should be stopped from adopting children to call their own

I mean, they may be in a straight relationship, but one (or both) of the parents are bisexual.

Anyone have any fear they'll raise their child to be bisexual or gay?

because OH NOES!! They might raise their child to believe that bisexualism is normal!11!!!! And then their child could potentially end up in a gay relationship.

(for the record, I have no problem with it)

 

not a problem, thats my way of thinking. When you are in a particular environment you do get used to it, dont you? (ppl have accents, etc. and plenty dont as you say

Tokio, I have no problem with it too, I just state what will happen

 

?? When you're bisexual in a homosexual or heterosexual relationship.. you stick to one or the other.. (If they're in a family, lets say there's a bisexual woman.. she's not going to have a relationship with another woman when she's taken already..)

How does growing up thinking that homosexuality or bisexuality is normal makes you gay or bi? I have plenty of friends that are STRAIGHT and think it's normal. And with gay friends who thought it was horribly wrong (growing up due to parents & religion) growing up with depression and self hate until they realize it's okay.. I don't think one's opinion if it's right or wrong determines your sexual orientation at all

 

so why would straight couples teach their kids to be gay?
his head is mashed on coke or crack

 

this is given that everyone has sex while the child watches huh?
we all do that right?
mommy and daddy are gonna have sex, come watch so you'll be straight and not a homo

 

True, but believing in God in not a natural thing. It's not overriding our natural human tendencies.

If a child is going to be straight, they are going to be straight regardless of how they grew up, same with being gay. (with the exception of something traumatic happening to the child)

Just like you can't raise a boy to be a girl (there was a study done, and it failed).

 

whoah, and I am not purple either, can you believe it?

 

Wow.. parents do not have *that* much power. Yes they effect you on child development greatly, but not everything.

I am a living example of that. If I took all of the values that my parents were trying to pump into my head, I'd be a hating machine hating all of the Caucasians, Indians, native Americans, Africans, Asians, gays out there. (absurd yes?) and oh yeah.. and I wouldn't respect religions at all except for christianity. Even as a kid I didn't believe them yet I was told it several days a week.

I mean did my parents teach me to become a doctor? Oh I'm never going to be one.

Just an example..

 

well I do NOT believe that a child 1 month old can be gay at that stage.

if the society would think equally about homo couples & doctors, then this thread wouldnt even come up, mate

 

Good point. That would be quite gross in everyway

I forgot about that study! Yes there was one... (I'm not sure if we're talking about the same one...) but it was a man who's private parts were cut off as a child so his parents tried to raise him up as a girl (clothing, everything) and he never felt comfortable and then sadfully we found out about what really happened much too late (when he was older).. And note: that he went on to have a heterosexual family after this... then his suicide. Can't remember the exact name of this man (psychology text book is somewhere under my mess lol)

 

Okay, last attempt:

Why on earth, heterosexual couples have mostly heterosexual kids, c'mon I need a real answer, based on facts.

I will post my answer, if noone answers it

 

Okay.. another example: my friend's parents were of course pressuring her to get married and such (not too much pressure, like what most parents are , plus they didn't know she was gay) and she still turned out gay.

Straight parents do not teach their kids to be gay, it's the opposite.. (straight.. well not "teach" but imply things about having a heterosexual relationship in the future) and they still turn out gay.

 

Because that's what the majority are... it's based on what animals are about: Why are they "straight" or why are males attracted to females? To breed and increase the population.

How do you explain homosexuality in animals... I'm sure animal "parents" can't "teach" their babies

 

Well I do NOT believe that any 1 month old really is worrying about his/her sexuality at that time.

They probably don't realize it until they're a little older and starting to get 'interested' in people. And they're going to be gay/straight regardless of what their parents are.

Yes, that one! He committed suicide after his twin brother died.

So, see? This guy was raised for years (I think 13 years) to be a girl, but in the end it still couldn't override his natural tendencies, and he did go back to being a boy and got married to a woman.

So I don't think that a gay couple - even if they tried to raise their child as gay - could make the child be gay. If the child is going to be straight, it's going to be straight.

 

What is the source of your knowledge?
I believe that homosexuallity is a latent potential in all humans to varying degrees. A fall back protection system for the emotions and mind when isolated physically or emotionally chronically from the opposite sex. I know that I literally did everything to be like my father, and he could do no wrong in my eyes. Under these circumstances I feel it is a clear and present influence that could led a child into a lifestyle that is both physically and emotionally dangerous.

 

well done, thats what I wanted to hear.

 

I am not talking about examples, I'm talking about in total, there are also gays in heterosexual couples now as everyone said, but most arent gays.

I am not saying that I am 100% sure that homo couples will have mostly homo kids as the rest of the world (hint: majority) is still heterosexuals, thus I said I'm curious what will happen.

 

But it's a fact. How does it relate to having straight parents breeding straight kids at all?

I think natural selection.. in biology should be taught (mandatory) in high schools atleast.. and psychology... not in university since not everyone will go there and learn it , it would make things so much easier

 

LMAO.. is that so? That's hard to believe, I found merely 5% of the children follow their parents. rest decided themselves what they have to do..

Well ofcourse that is in progressive society, not in one where offending children can be stoned to death..

 

I would add my thoughts and opinions to this debate but I would rather not offend anyone and keep my reputation in tact.

To say the very least, and this being my personal opinion , I would have to agree with the thread starter.