why muslim women are not allowed more than one husband?

Discussion in 'Politics & Religion' started by alaska88, Jun 21, 2007.

  1. #1
    Men can marry 4, women only one, is that fair? :(
     
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  2. Toopac

    Toopac Peon

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    #2
    <islam>

    Yes it fair for an inferior person to have less.

    </islam>

    Men can actually have more that 4 wives too in certain circumstances.
     
    Toopac, Jun 21, 2007 IP
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    #3
    who needs more than one husband!
    i mean it doesn't bear thinking about!
    as germaine greer said, what every woman really needs is a wife, and no she was not talking about lesbians, but about the need to have someone to look after us.
     
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    SakaryaLee Well-Known Member

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    #4
    you know wrong about having 4 wifes in Islam.

    You can only get 4 wife if your wifes allow you to get.. If their wifes allow him to get more, why do you still talk about it ? it is not your business.
     
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  5. gworld

    gworld Prominent Member

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    #5
    Marriage is not about love or being fair, it is about inheritance and division of property after the person death. With multiple husbands you couldn't know who is the father (DNA was not invented yet) and from which man, should the child inherit. The same problem doesn't exist with multiple wives. That is the reason for Napoleonic law in France which forbid to research about real father of a child and any child born in to a marriage was always assumed as the child of the husband by law with full inheritance rights.
     
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    chant Well-Known Member

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    #6
    How do you tell the difference between each of your four wives if they are wearing burqas? And don't tell me that you have to paint numbers on their backs.
     
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    hmansfield Guest

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    #7
    Because they are Muslim and they choose to follow that religion and it's teachings.
    I just noticed all of your posts are religious with a strong emphasis on Muslim women, what gives?
     
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  8. Toopac

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    #8
    lol, they don't wear them in the house or more importantly in the presence of their husband.
     
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    #9
    if you live by their laws it's fair, if you live by western laws it isn't
     
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  10. The Webmaster

    The Webmaster IdeasOfOne

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    #10
    What if they are going somewhere, let's say in market, with their husband. how would their husband be able to identify them??:confused:
     
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    #11
    The above is actually probably the best way:D

    Do muslim guys go out to the market for instance & ever bump into a female they know?
     
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  12. N_F_S

    N_F_S Active Member

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    #12
    so much interest to muslims, you guys got nothing to do probably.

    Let's talk about circumcision, shall we ?
     
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  13. Toopac

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    #13
    Obviously you just got back, or you would already know the thread starter is actually a Muslim, so that kind of rules out a western fascination of islam.

    Don't Jews do that, something to do with their religion?
     
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  14. N_F_S

    N_F_S Active Member

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    #14
    How do you know? I dont think so. He/She's banned? Good decision.

    I think it does relate to their religion too, who cares, christians do it too.
     
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  15. Toopac

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    #15
    He/she said so, best source?

    Why don't you think he/she is not?

    Yea it's great he's banned.
     
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    #16
    Thats a woman, Alaska.

    Source? Herself stating so..
    and Yes she is a muslim...
     
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  17. samantha pia

    samantha pia Prominent Member

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    #17
    s/he stated "why do you assume i'm a woman" then "why do you assume i'm a man" :D
    then the over active interest in myself (lesbian) something both guys and lesbian have an equal interest in ;)
    i still think it was zerosleep in disguise :rolleyes:
     
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  18. The Webmaster

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    #18
    That was pretty lame on her side IMO.
    She kept PMing me and explaining why she was doing so... I was like WTH!!!
     
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    #19
    Sorry to burst your bubble but I have never had any more interest in lesbians than I would an average person on the street.....never understood why any guy would either....

    I find hetero chicks extremely interesting though.....

    I did enjoy your article on "eating V out" very well writtten though. I am a conisseuer of the art as well...


    :cool:
     
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  20. Postingpays

    Postingpays Well-Known Member

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    #20
    I am sorry that i jumped into the thread late :D

    Anyhow, dear according to the teachings of Islam man can have 4 wives at one time it doesn't mean that women can't have.

    Dear, according to Islam women can have more than one husband but as far as the conditions are fulfilled.

    Lets suppose at one time women is married to more than 1 man. If a child is born be her, who will be declared as child's father ??

    That is the reason Islam prohabit women to have more than one husband in one time, but if her husband is died or divorced her, than she can go for next marriage.

    I hope you have got the clear view of Islam, instead of some misconception.
     
    Postingpays, Jun 21, 2007 IP