Well this is great thread for those boys who have no GF. I read all post carefully and will do some change in my life to become Good Boy. :
There is a whole different kinda bad boy out there too. They play by their own rules, which includes respect unless disrespect is due. They do not stand by and let the fear of non acceptance or legal retribution stand in the way of what is actually the right thing to do. They do not walk quickly by when someone is being robbed on the street. Thet do not remain silent while a woman is being dis-respected even though it is none of they're business. Its an old code of honor that often times seems forgotten. One where a man's word is a bond that best not be broken.
sounds more like a gentleman than a bad boy.... when I hear bad boy - i think punk, puts himself before others...no
There's a very thin line between a gentleman and a bonehead who doesn't mind his own business. I'm talking about defending strangers. A bad boy is usualy a smart guy, loved by women, who doesn't take s... from anybody.
It seems nobody knows fer sure. I guess the reason I have a bad attitude towards the term "bad boy" is I watched my sister get her ass kicked all her life by what i thought were bad boys. About in my mid 20's I gave up on her ever making a rational decision about men and also me trying to defend her. I made the decision after I pulled a gun on a guy in the late 80's and knew defending her anymore would land me in prison. I just got tired of all the BS from her stupid decisions and feeling sorry for her. Although I'm not entirely blameless, I like bad girls and I'm with one now but I ask no one to clean up my mess whenever the sh** hits the fan when I hook up with a bad girl. This woman will kick ass and take names in any situation (she is a spicy hot latina) and shes a bit jealous for my taste. I have mostly female friends and that causes a never ending arguement but shes trying to do better. Why she submits at all to me is a mystery, but somehow we click.
http://www.howtospotadangerousman.com/ This is not related to me but I found this ebook for idiots who like bad boys. (like me with bad girls)
Good point about the conditioning.. I think the "bad boy" desire may be part of that as well.. the media goes both ways sometimes.