The problem of looking too young

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by qwestcommunications, May 6, 2007.

  1. #1
    No one believes my actual age. I look way younger than my age, but don't have a baby face or anything. For me, there are pros and cons. The con is that people don't take you seriously. I am in my mid twenties but get mistaken for 17-19 year old.
     
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  2. Dev0115

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    #2
    Damn that sucks, imagine going to a bar and them asking you for an ID..Grow a beard lol?
     
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    #3
    It sucks now, but you'll be thankful when you hit your 40's ;)
     
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    #4
    Just grow a beard. You'd look 5+ older.
     
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    Angelus Well-Known Member

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    #5
    I have the same problem, only reversed. People (mostly women ;) ) think that I'm older. I'm 21 but I could easily pass as 26 year old :)

    It can be good, but it can be bad too

    p.l.u.r.
     
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  6. w3bmaster

    w3bmaster Notable Member

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    #6
    Well for a women this "problem" is a bless

    For man hmm a problem indead

    Anyway i look mature for my 23 years so i'm not having any problems
     
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  7. CountryBoy

    CountryBoy Prominent Member

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    #7
    I'm 26 and I have the opposite problem - my receding hairline means I often get confused with a 40 year old! Must be the stresses of everyday life.
     
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    Computerized Well-Known Member

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    #8
    Yeah, grow some facial hair and you'll like at least 5-10 years older. :D
     
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  9. 8everything

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    #9
    Lol , that's funny.. but to some extend, it would be worse to be mistaken for a high school student at 20 though :eek: .. I know girls do not like that! BUT, make up fixes everything :D
     
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    #10
    I had that same problem-I would go to the movies and have a young teen come and sat and throw his arm around me and I way over 20. The bright side is that when ppl don't take you seriously because you look to young-that will make you work harder to prove them wrong.
     
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    LOl. It can't be that bad, can it? A 26 year old getting mistaken for a 40 year old. perhaps you need to save your money you are earning online for a hair transplant or two. This should bring back your youthful looks. :)
     
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    #12
    Big deal dude, when your 50 youll be happy. Better lookig young than old. also age has nothign to do with respect it's how you carry yourself.
     
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    #13
    I was well into my 20's before I looked 18 and I still can't grow a beard. I can go a day or two without shaving.

    Employers quickly take me seriously when they see my resume. And I don't go out to bars so I have no issues.
     
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    Yeah.. it all revolves around age discrimination :mad: I dislike that the most.. I mean, admit it :p without age discrimination there wouldn't be a problem with people acting different towards you if you looked young or not!
     
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    Lol. Tahts a coincidence. I too can't grow a proper beard. There is big gap between the folliclees that give out the hair strands on my face. This is why I never try to grow out my beard because it would be so sparse. I too can go 3 days or so without having to shave.
     
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    #16
    You and i have the same problem then :) am 25 years old, and look like a 18 years old, the difference between us that i dont considere it to be a problem, and my look really reflect my personality, even if am a computer engineer, i love sports, dancing and even watching tom and jerry :D , am young inside too :), i think you should be very proud of yourself, many people (especially girls) would love to have what you got :)
     
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    #17
    i face a similar problem, that's why i have a mostache! now people get my correct age, 22! not 17 i guess!!

    but then, it don't make much of a problem, since i don't go to bar:p
     
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    #18
    save off your head, that's what I did and people tell me I look a lot older :)
     
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    #19
    Try to gain some weight and build ur body.

    BTW can u guess my age(check avatar)?
     
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    #20
    When I was 16 I could often get by with paying bus fare for the 12 and under age group. They didnt even question me. Now, I am in my 40s and people usually guess that I am 30 or 35.

    In the future you will be glad that you look younger than your age - if it lasts
     
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