I remember you were so sad over a girl a few months ago. I wish you good luck with this new girl, have fun!
if you and your partner are fine then its perfect. after all you both have to spend your whole life together . so decide and convince every one, they should agree to the relationship
it doesn't matter, i always want to date older woman when i was younger. and 4 years is not that much either. and you two are just dating now, right? Why make it sound so serious?
WOW that will be nice couple. i think age difference dont count in love. if you love her and she too want you, then there is no problem, GO Ahead. ENjoy
As everyone said why are you worrying too much? It's just 4 years, and 4 years is not a big deal. Just chill and have fun, stop worrying and everything is going to be super cool. Ha ha ha that really made me laugh, real cool
Didn't see you for a long time Denise, thank you for your advice, and thank you all people, I will try to have fun instead ...
Love knows no age. It doesn't matter how old she is, as long as you love each other. All that matters is happiness.
It has nothing to do with chilling out. It's about having some sympathy and respect for those less fortunate than yourself. Suppose a DP member with a disability read your comment. How do you think it would make them feel?
ya...just go have fun. nothing to worry about the difference of age. age doesnt matter as long as you're happy with her and she will happy with you
Thanks people, but I am afraid the look that she look at me, when she look she sees a kid, or a man the she can rely on .... damn she talk to me like someone teaching me or something .... but I love her, and she love me, and I didn't have a relation for a long time since I break up with my ex gf ....
4 years?? Man thats nothing there are people that are like 20 years apart and they still get along. Go for it. - Prilep
I can speak from personal experience. I am 10 years older than my husband and this has never been a problem. We just knew we were exactly right for each other, and age never came into it. And we've been together for about 13 years now, and are more deeply in love than ever. We're partners in everything (including our website work) and can't imagine just how much we would have missed out on if we had not followed our hearts. And age still doesn't matter a damn! I think it's more of what you feel is right in your heart. It's your outlook and the "age" you and your girlfriend "feel" and act is much more relevant. Some young people are very mature, some the same age are like kids still. Some older people still feel like teenagers at heart! Some grow old prematurely. Your inner age doesn't necessarily reflect your actual age. If you have been together with this girl for a while, and you both feel you're on the same wavelength, and that you truly love and want to commit to each other, then go for it! Naturally you would like the blessing of your family and friends, and of course they can have an effect on your future life, but ultimately you need to do what is right for you and your lady. If your heart and soul tell you it's the right way to go, don't give up on what might be your perfect chance for a wonderful fulfilling relationship. Good luck!