I have a friend and I have fallen in love with my friend's younger sister. I like her very much and would like to marry her. But she always calls my a bro and looks like me as a bro and never calls me by my name. I want her to stop calling me like that before I tell her whats in my mind. Without explicitly telling her 'Don't call me a bro and call me by my name', I want to convey this info to her. Digital point has many BRILLIANT members and I hope you people would help me with my life...
Well this situation is very complicated My opinion just go and tell her and if she reacts good all is good Sincerly this situations end bad olmost all of a time ....
So both you and your friend are in love with the same girl? And considering the fact that she see's you as here "bro", you still want to marry here? Dude, that's not right. Tell here your fellings, ask here to give you once chance to go out with here, and if you fail, you will never bother here again.. If you don't make it to the goal, move on! There is plenty of fish in the sea..
Yeah tell her everything immediatly.because it may be late and you might feel in sorrow.GO buddy you have anthing to lose!
HUHUHU.. it's too complicated... just tell the truth my friends... if u ask me... im going for dare to fail !!!... the chance only come once... good luck bro... !!! p/s - later plz give us the result/progress ok!!
tell her everything u think about her and i hope she will b ready to accept u as lover instead of brother.
It has been 5 months since I knew her. Looks like I am going to make a decision... I am going to tell her what I feel... But as you suggest... If I tell her outright, and if it gives her a shock then I will lose my friend and also my 'sis' My friend looks at me as a very decent man and I dont want to lose her friendship (my friend is a girl and I love her younger sis).
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I have a strange feeling that everything will get messed up if I tell this my friend first... if he is a boy, I would have told.. but she is a girl... and if she does not feel comfortable about it, it wud spoil my game
Practically, as a girl i think you will ruin everything if she does not like your this approach...Because girls can hardly, though they say, can bear shocks.. You need to take a gradual approach.. that is try to show her some way that you have a feeling for her.. that could be easy for a boy.. Do not irritate her... but just from your few sentences it should show that you miss her presence or your sentence should have some special importance for her... If she starts avoiding you... that means she is not interested to go along with this relation and i prefer that you quit instead of spoiling everything... In the other case, if she does not avoid you, you have full chance to get her... in that case after few weeks, you can confess everything what you feel for her and how bad it would be for you to live without her. I am sure she will understand... give her two options there: 1. tell in this way to her "even if you do not want to go with this relation.. i do not want anything that hurts you..so let me know what you want me to do.. i can stop talking to you, if that hurts.. anything that makes you happy.. i will do that." in this way she would have a soft corner for you and it will not end up with disaster. 2. Other one is obvious, if she is willing to go ahead then i don't need to say anything In this case if she takes time to think..then give her.. tell her she can take as much time as she wants.. I am sure she is positive.. Take care and best luck!!!!