LOL I said almost the exact same thing to a guy I know yesterday. You're silly... but entirely justified for feeling that way. Precisely... it's not about "worship." It's about respect and attraction of one kind or another, and it should be mutual. If she expects more, at the very least, she better be able and willing to give more at the same time.
Ah yes, making a woman flash you before you'll go out with her is sure setting a solid relationship foundation. But, when I was a 12-year-old boy, I thought the same way. It's natural. I don't kick guys in the balls (that's just wrong), but I sure want to when I see these men (I mean dopey boys) become servants to their women. You know what happens? They eventually grow up and become unhappy, because their woman is controlling them 100% 24-7. Of course, I didn't read ALL 30 pages, so I'm not sure if were talking about one night stands here or having a relationship.
Thanks Dr. Phil. If it were only that simple. What's "happiness" to one person is stupid or sadness to another.
Yeah; it sort of sets up a trap. I have a friend who is like that to some extent. In my personal opinion he stays with her girl more so out of convenience then anything (due to finances). He started out apologizing all the time; even when he was in the right just to get her to shut up and quite her bitchin; mainly because he really didn't care what she was bitchin about because it was something rather stupid (which is usually what these cases tend to be mostly about). Now she expects him to apologize for something and when he doesn't, its just an all out war once again until he apologizes for not apologizing type of situation. I personally can't wait till he ditches the girl; but thats just me. I really hope he doesn't end up falling victim to such a sad life when he knows it really isn't (or even close to) what he wants in a girlfriend.
Women want attention, man want freedom. One of them have to be unhappy. Oh and if you want a formula.. 1-To find a girl, you need money and time together: Girl = money * time 2-Time is money so: Money = time 3-So we can say that: Girl = money * money: Girl = (money)² 4-Reason for all problems depends on MONEY! : Money = √problem 5-So we can say that: Girl = (√problem)² Girl = Problem Hope this explains everything
Just a joke... Women vs. Men A man will pay $2 for a $1 item he wants. A woman will pay $1 for a $2 item that she doesn't want. A woman worries about the future until she gets a husband. A man never worries about the future until he gets a wife. A successful man is one who makes more money than his wife can spend. A successful woman is one who can find such a man. To be happy with a man you must understand him a lot & love him a little. To be happy with a woman you must love her a lot & not try to understand her at all. Married men live longer than single men, but married men are a lot more willing to die. Men vs.Women Any married man should forget his mistakes -- There's no use in two people remembering the same thing. Men wake up as good-looking as they went to bed. Women somehow deteriorate during the night. A woman marries a man expecting he will change, but he doesn't. A man marries a woman expecting that she won't change & she does. A woman has the last word in any argument. Anything a man says after that is the beginning of a new argument. There are 2 times when a man doesn't understand a woman: before marriage & after.
lol .... this is why i will never be married... 1st... im not commiting to anyone (theirs to many women who need good sex) 2nd.... A fool and his bank account are soon departed 3rd ... need i go thier? wasnt the first to examples enough? thx malcolm thx malcolm
Yes, but a woman will spend hours to save that $1.00. I man only worries about future sex after getting married. Then there is no such thing as a successful man. You must also buy him a big screen TV, as for making a woman happy, I have no clue. The longest sentence in the English language is "I do". Men make no mistakes You never woke up with me yet Too true. Men who talk during an argument know nothing about women. Actually three, There are 2 times when a man doesn't understand a woman: before marriage & after and any time in between.
They added me on msn, complete randoms. I don't like them at all, they are extremely annoying which is why I swore at them! It was pretty immature but hey it worked and I got a laugh
Are you sure about that? I'm pretty certain there are other "types" of women out there who aren't looking for a man in their life.
What women want: - Confidence (not cocky, i'm king of everyone and I'll treat you like dirt... thats not confidence. Confidence is you believe in yourself, you don't second think yourself, don't keep regrets, do what you want) - Humour (makes her laugh) - Smile (you know what I mean, the smile which makes you want to smile aswell) - Leader (the one which everyone looks up to, takes charge) - Looks Good (not just natural looks, but shower regularly, good clothes [matching is a good start] etc.)
That's not a bad list rochow. For the "leader" part, I wouldn't say always true... but on some level it is. A guy who can take charge, but who doesn't always feel the need to can be better in a lot of cases... at least imo. Overall, you seemed to hit the basics. And the matching clothes thing is something I wouldn't have thought of, but oh so true. lol
What I'm talking about where the basics Jhmattern Basically, just the basic 5 elements needing for a girl to like a guy. Believe or not aslong as you have those 5 things, not much else matters (refer to the girl I who I told to f' off, yet she still flashed me and continually asks me out! I displayed those 5 elements, which are basically me anyway, and she still feels drawn to me even though she annoys me like crazy and I give monosyllabic answers to her now ) except when dealing with long term happiness. By leader, I don't mean someone who always takes charge. A good leader knows when, and when not to take charge. For example, someone like Robbie Williams is attractive, why? Because he is famous That's the leader thing I am talking about... someone people look up to and follow/would follow. Who is more attractive, assuming all other things are equal: the CEO of a company or one of its cleaners? Other things (being nice, can cook [i dunno lol] etc.) vary from girl to girl and are more material wants. Unless there are the those 5 you'll pretty much lose attraction. Well the clothes, who'll get your attention? Someone who walks in the room with unmatching clothes, or someone who walks in with clothes than not only look good, but match and attract attention [yay he doesn't need to be dressed by you he can do it himself! ]
I think when you get little wiser and hang out with a lot of women, you'll find that they are extremely diverse in what makes them tick and what they look for. Guys tend to be pretty stupid in this area. They dress/act like they think women want, but it's really just to gain approval of other males. Walk on any university campus and you'll find plenty of these males. It's pathetic, but it's something that most males have to go through to finally (if they are lucky) reach true manhood. I do agree that a confident leader-type male who is smart, funny and has potential will hit the buttons of many females. I'll disagree on the clothes issue. Again, that's a male-male issue and it's no where close to being a general issue across the spectrum of women out there. There's a whole group of women who wouldn't mind a guy who's not matching. Why? Because she can make him hers and she can do things like pick out his clothes and let's face it, play mommy.
There can't be a conclusion to a question that doesn't have one straight answer. Oh and by the way Jason? I play "mommy" to no man.