love merriage or arrange merriage, which one is intresting and life long or strong?

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  1. sonu321

    sonu321 Peon

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    #81
    but in arranged marriage we going to arrange each and everything.so here is less chance of breakin up relations.
     
    sonu321, Jan 2, 2007 IP
  2. phd

    phd Active Member

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    #82
    I've got mail regarding this
    here it is...

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    Love Marriage: Resembles procedural programming language. We have some set functions like flirting, going to movies together, making long conversations on phone and then try to fit all functions to the candidate we like.

    Arranged Marriage: Similar to object oriented programming approach. We first fix the candidate and then try to implement functions on her. The main object is fixed and various functions are added to supplement the main program. The functions can be added or deleted.

    Love Marriage: It is a throwaway type of prototype as client requirements rises with time thus it is a dynamic system and difficult to maintain.

    Arranged Marriage: Requirements are well defined so use of waterfall model is possible.

    Love Marriage: Family system hangs because hardware called parents are not responding.

    Arranged Marriage: Compatible with hardware Parents.

    Love Marriage: You are the project leader so u are responsible for implementation and execution of PROJECT- married life.

    Arranged Marriage: You are a team member under project leader parents so they are responsible for successful execution of project Married life.

    Love Marriage: Client expectations include exciting feature as spouse cooking food, washing clothes etc.

    Arranged Marriage: All these features are covered in the SRS as required features.

    Love Marriage: Acceptance test possible you can try before you Buy.

    Arranged Marriage: Product is sold on an as is where is basis, Product once sold will not be taken back!
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    phd, Jan 3, 2007 IP
  3. ecolatur

    ecolatur Well-Known Member

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    #83
    nice mail.toatlly agreed with this.:D

    Abhilash.
     
    ecolatur, Jan 3, 2007 IP
  4. ash82

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    #84
    hi, I guess noth have their own positive and negative points. In arrange marriage, since teh whole thing si arranged by your elders and family, you can look up to them in case any problems arie. whereas in love marriae there is no1 else to blame but your own self.

    it also depends on the kind of person you are. Even in love marriages, there can be disagreements, compromises and may be a few fights, but if you are a realistic person and you understand that this is normal when two people are living together and things can be resolved, its all ok. However if you are lost in fantasies, you will have porblems in maintaining the relationship for a long time and this is even true for arrange marriages.
     
    ash82, Jan 3, 2007 IP
  5. worldwide

    worldwide Well-Known Member

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    Perhaps both are equally important but the most important factor is mutual understanding between the couple.
     
    worldwide, Jan 4, 2007 IP
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    #86
    this is not thread which relation is important and which is not.the point is that which is better n which relation will b lifelong.its right the most important factor is mutual understanding between couple.
    about my opinion love marriage are better.in this we know to each other.
    in arrange marriage we r unable to know nature of each other b4 marriage.

    spidey.
     
    spiderroost, Jan 4, 2007 IP