love merriage or arrange merriage, which one is intresting and life long or strong?

Generally (and note, I acknowledge that this it isn't always the case), parents want their kids to be happy. Forcing them to marry someone they hate isn't exactly the best way to get that result.

 

i would probably prefer love marriage 1st and then arrange in case i don't find a gal who is suited to me.

 

a happy married life doesnt depend on whether its a love or arranged match..it depends on the compatibility and chemistry of two people wanting to spend the rest of their lives with each other and for each other!

 

Well, I know I'm quite a psycho and maybe horrible to look at...so I'm considering to stay single...

This gives me more time for something else, no commitments and when I grow old, I'd get more psychic and miserable out of the loneliness...and I deserve it.

 

Dont want to buy a Hotel for drink A cup of coffee

 

ya its right but if u r partner is not understandin u n ur feeling .
n if in u r chemistry,if 1 equation wud rong den all chemistry will b rong.if he/she doesnt love u n he/she hv some past.
n u r partner is not happy wit u.den u r chemistry will work here.
wats u r openion about it?

 

if u r partner is not understanding u,r intentions,feelings.
u r partner is not intresed wit u n she/he intrested wit anyother person.
means u r partner wudn't honest (loyal)wit u.
den how u will b happy wit partner.

 

Very correct.
I support Love Marriages.

 

I am personally against any kind of marriage. Why do we need society's stamp of approval (marriage license) to cohabit with someone?

Arranged marriages are stupid. It's like being made to breed in a zoo, as if you're an animal. You don't know a damn thing about your partner. How can two people live happily without knowing each other well enough.

"Discovering more about your partner" & "new surprise everyday", what the fuck, is this some kind of sick anthropological experiment? What happens when you discover unpleasant things about your partner?

Who fucks the spouse & agrees to share life with the spouse until death or divorce do them part? Parents or the two individuals engaging in matrimony? The two individuals obviously, so the decision is theirs to make. It's kind of like whether you'd rather spend the weekend with a good friend or someone you have never met before.

Right now I find bliss in promiscuity but to anyone considering love vs arranged marriage my clear suggestion is love marriage. You'll be much happier with someone you know & like already.

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hey..the things tht u said can happen only if u meet sum1 on monday n get married to tht person on tuesday..sumtime is definately needed 2 knw if ur compatible wid tht person or no.

 

it happens wit arrange marriage. if u met 4 singletime den u didnt get partners nature.
if u hvnt met wit u r partner den how u wud decide u can b happy wit dat person.
here it does matter of love marriage or arrange marriage?
den which marriage u will prefer?

 

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PS : wher's denise ? Havnt seen her around

 

Denise has been busy

 

Don't marry! You will repent!!!

 

hey tell me d reason.
y u r in repent?

Abhilash.

 

If I tell you that I am repenting
my wife will kill me

LOL! I am not married! No body marries at 20

 

Bhwuhahahahaha!

 

I am really confused at this point of time to say whether I should go with love marriage or arranged marriage

as both have some advantages and disadvantages

But I think slightly love marriage is ahead of the arranged marriage as you get to know about your partner

 

i think arranged marriage are better. and life long too.i dont think so love marriage will be lifelong.

 

i m not agreed with you.how love marriage wont b life long?
i think most of arranged marriage hv same case .

Abhilash.