Haha, Padawan, a picture cannot possibly compare to a real woman -- especially MY picture! Silly, silly. Thank you, Jenn. I shall try to feel better as quickly as possible, because tomorrow is the big 2-0 and I do NOT want to be sick on my birthday.
If they dont like how you act why are they going out with you in the first place lol, no need to fake being someone else and "act mature" cus you are on a date. Props to you
There's a difference between "Faking" who you are, Seiya, and growing up. A lot of people (both men AND women) have yet to master the concept of adulthood.
Haha, adulthood is a necessary part of life. Unfortunately, many people don't understand this and are content being "children" for the rest of their lives. I don't pretend to be mature all the time. I have moments where I would undoubtedly be considered "immature." But MOST women don't want a boyfriend they have to take care of as if he were a child. I want my mind to be stimulated, and if a man can't have an intelligent conversation with me because he hasn't yet reached my level of maturity, then I will find someone who can relate.
Yet somehow, everyone wishes they were a kid again Doesnt matter as long as they are content Thats why sigmund freud said most men love their MOM, more than their wife You are mistaken dear. Minds of Kids are more stimulated than you could ever imagine. Our minds are limited with an illusion of the world. We dont question everything, they do. If you want stimulation, you are better of wid a bf who has d heart of a kid
Sorry whoever thinks they always have to act "adult" then they are missing out on a lot of fun. Being a bit childish is always good
I don't recall ever saying that you have to act like an "adult" 100% of the time. As a matter of fact, I seem to recall mentioning that I have my kid moments too What I AM saying is that you are mistaken if you believe you can skate through your entire life with the mentality of a child. There's a time to have fun, and let your "kid" side out, but there's also a time where your more mature side needs to come into play. An adult is someone who can recognize these two instances and know the proper place and time for each of them.
Now theres no need to say that. Its very implicit. Even a teen knows when to act his age n wen to act a grownup You saying this tells me about how stimulating you are .. lol PS : I just love this guy for exposing psychoanalysis ... Helps a lot wen u wana attract women / gain attention.
I respectfully beg to differ. I can't tell you the number of people I've met that don't know the difference between the two. A 35 year old man I used to know to this DAY cannot distinguish between adult behavior and child-like behavior. He believes everything is a joke, and cannot (or does not see a reason to) act serious in even the most solemn moments. Not everyone knows when to act their "age" and when to act like an adult.
That speaks a lot about the company you keep. I suggest you dont generalise the world based on a handful experiences of your own. Lol.. u shud b pi***d by now eh
No, it takes quite a bit to make me angry And actually, that doesn't speak anything about the company I keep -- I know him through association only, not because I actively sought his friendship. Also, I am not attempting to generalize the world, merely suggesting that you could be wrong in your assumptions that everyone knows when it's appropriate to act like a child and when you need to put on your "adult face."
I never used the word "every" . I said the thought you put forward is implicit, which means most if not all, do know how to act according to the situation, that is if they are adults. BTW.. The world knows you by the company you keep . Get some better associates.
The world doesn't know me by the company I keep. Who I choose to befriend should not and does not reflect my personal character. I can understand why people might believe that, but in my case it isn't true. Furthermore, you're not even reading what I said -- the example I stated above was not someone I was close friends with, but merely knew because he was a sibling of a friend of mine.
Boys or men really think they know what a woman or a girl wants. My take on it is you will never find out what they want because they hardly try to take any interest in their partners thought. Women are far more sensitive and thoughtful and they can be really touchy at times. They can be demanding and wish you to behave like grown ups where as you want to set your self. They have a lot of expectations from you when to do what but you are hardly interested in the protocol. So Dont try too hard you wont understand them even if you do.
Jst coz people say you look preety doesnt mean you are any different inside Here's an anology for your stimulating mind : Your friends sibling is a naive, you see he is naive, you talk about how naive he is, people see the weird kinda people you know, people think you are similar
What does people saying I look "pretty" have anything to do with my personal character? I don't see how that's even relevant to the conversation. Furthermore, people can believe what they'd like to about me. Those who truly know me do not judge me based on naive people I *happen* to know.
Try to comprehend how its relevant from the bold ink. If you still cant comprehend then, Oh, maybe you need a brain implant ... jst kiddin Everyone who truly knows you right now, did start somewhere when he did not know you at all. People change, friendships are lost, and if you do not make new associations, you'd stand alone as a misfit ... Man, i've had my fun fr tonite.. c ya later.. btw.. this thread is one of d best on DP
Yes, they did start somewhere. But those who actually made an effort to look "beyond a pretty face," as I believe you are trying to imply, actually realized I was someone worth knowing. I've formed several lasting friendships because people actually took the time to get to know me before their opinion of my character was slandered by pre-judgements.