love merriage or arrange merriage, which one is intresting and life long or strong?

i think love marriage is interesting ,
b'coz we have idea to know that person better than person we don't know.
if we go thru arrange marriage, den we dn't have chance to spend time with that person ago. so how we will get his/her nature.
on other side parents experience speaks, love marriage is not successful.
i heard love gets dead after marriage or they get board.

tell me, which 1 is interesting and strong ? and give d reason.

 

This isn't the case for every one:

"if we go thru arrange merriage, den we dn't have chance to spend time with that person ago.so how we will get his/her nature."

There are many people having arranged love marriage And I think I'll choose this. Sounds pretty much interesting. What do you think

 

This is not a place to experiment khan, that you will choose arranged one

Secondly not everybody will fall in love , so if ur not in love with somebody then obviously u have only one option left .ie. for arrange marriage..

Then if somebody is in love then - the best option is to go for love marriage... why to choose arranged then

Thirdly as a guy I feel: No matter how long you know a girl , you never know a girl, so there is no point in thinking that way - "that we can know a girl in a love marriage..." Bcos nobody knows that...

It's all about trust and a whole loads of factors..... also depends on both people in love...

but still looking for answers...

Abhilash.

 

Agreed ecolatur.

When someone is in love, he should go for love marriage. But my view is bit different Most of the people don't agree with me.

As for what I wrote "arranged love marriage" this means there will be some love involved.

And agreed that we can't know a girl fully , In fact it is a bit difficult to understand girls (complicated psychi ).

I personally don't believe in love (actually love (now a days) is SEX. DO you agree with this?

EDIT: Sorry my posts is a messed up

 

Arranged marriage is stronger in one sense of the word because in such a case, people are likely to be obligated to stay together.

 

ya i agree with u,
but wen u dnt no anythin about dat person den how u can go wit dat pearson 4 life long?
if u hvnt seen or met dat pearson for single time den how u can decide dat pearson is good or bad.

wat u think about it?

 

offcourse dey should go for love marriage. u r view is different b'coz
u dnt hv faith in love obivously u r view will b differnt.

as u wrote"arranged love marriage"what it means ,love involved right, but after marriage u r going to force to somebody for love.if u hvnt met for single time for dat person den how u will know he/she is love involved person.
den u hv to search for love involved person.

 

I have been with my girlfriend for over 3 years now. well out of the 3 years we have been engaged for 1 year. we lived together. we have talked about getting married. it seems like I'm always learning something new about her, you can't never know everything about a girl. Well I believe in love marriage not arrange marriage but if u can't find a girl to be with I guess arrange marriage Would be OK. I just hope you would not get stuck with a psycho girl

 

By arranged Love marriage I meant Love + arranged! Which means that there will be love involved from both sides. I never said that I'll be forcing someone to love me or something like.

And the reason why I don't have trust in love is that ThERE IS NO MORE LOVE! ONLY SEX. When you say you love someone it means you want to have sex with her/him (That's it). I know there are not lots of people who agree with me but I have strong faith in my words

 

I will defineltely go for Love Merraige. You find better opportunity to know many things about each other which may take a lot time after "arrange merraige". One more thing "Merriage is not something interesting" its something which is necessary.

 

thanx for giving reason for oneside .
i agree with u its necessory but intresting too.

 

First of all, nobody asked your meaning for the word LOVE here

This quote or urs is wrong - " When you say you love someone it means you want to have sex with her/him (That's it)."

Love is not all about sex. It just means you like the person in ur thoughts in ur dreams, in ur happiness and troubles and would wish to live rest of ur live with him/her.

I know its easy for you to say 'Talak" three times and re-marry again and say 'Talak" again thrice

Kan

 

ya... i appreciate your thoughts..khan is wrong...

 

I think love marriages r the best one ..

 

Arranged Marriages are better dude, you get tonnes of time to know each other well, I mean you know its like... a new surprise everyday, keeps you occupied for a long time

IT

 

I agree with kangaroo, khan is wrong, very wrong.

I think love marriages are better option always.

 

Well love marriage is better, becuase you can marry someone who you don't love. And someone said that not everyone fall's in love, I don't agree, if you give time you will fall in love, wait and you woun't even know when u fell in love.

 

lol, gr8, we get good and bad surprises too

 

Well Riya, u misspelled 'can't' as can in first sentence...but i undetstood that..

but i don't agree with ur second sentence..that if you give time you will fall in love...

seems a bit confusing to me... I feel love should just happen and not be forced or planned or sytematically executed.. i am not talking about making cake..where you will have to wait for the oven to beep

Abhilash

 

i guess this is a mostly indian theme