Whatever ... bottom line.. women like to be pampered with lies. Tell them what they want to listen and you get what u want
Perhaps if you prefer a ditz.... With many (I'd even dare to say most) women you'll get enormously more of what you want by not lying. And of course by not doing anything stupid enough that you'd feel a need to lie about it in the first place.
We dnt call it stupid.. we call it adventurous . Whats life without risks, adventures and doing stupid things that make u happy. U live only once. Do as many as u can [ things u call stupid ]
What is truth and what is lie ? Nothing is absolute truth and nothing is absolute lie. Lie if it makes u and ur partner happy.. after all.. life is more about living in the moment.
If you're going to hurt someone in the process, it's stupid; not adventurous. There are plenty of risks in life without that. You're free to do whatever you choose to do, and I'm free to call it stupid and choose a path where I know I'll always be able to respect myself and my decisions when all is said and done. All I know is that I'm thankful you don't speak for all men.
If u know how to lie and get out of it.. you dont hurt anyone, and you dont have to look stupid.. Tell me about it. You are a director in a multinational company and all of a sudden one fine day .. you get backstabbed and see your account balance is nil. When all is said and done.. you are on the death bed.. thinking about things you never did but wanted to do. Dont be soo sure
The best way to ask for sex? Well if you know the girl well enough no words are needed. You can just tell if she is up for it or not. If you dont, then i just ask in a jokingly (Is jokingly even a word?) way: "Fancy a quickie?" or something along the lines. I guess its a bit different with older generation.
@kartik786, I do not agree with any of your thoughts at all. and.. This is about respecting yourself, if you respect yourself, you will feel guilty and know you are stupid after what you've done. But as it seems you're not that kind of person.. By the way, my respect to myself means a lot more than having different p*ssies to fok every month or so to me..
@mightyb - may be, but here the trick is if she is not so willing to give you - how can you make her do it with you? @kartik786 - if we look at the law - any deception is punishable, and not telling the truth is same as lie. and never - I mean never you can calculate all the events, so your lie to be perfect. And there is no such a thing as innocent lie - at least you are undeestimateing the person you lie, his/her intelect, and you are blowing away the trust he/she has in you. my personal advice - Do not lie.
You respect yourself wen u know you get what you want. Some people want money, some success, some fame, some peace of mind.. you are one of those who wants a secure relationship ie the " SUPER EGO " domainant guy , I am one of those who is dominated by the "EID" . Search for EID, EGO and SUPER EGO on google, if you are not aware of these concepts.
Law itself is a lie. Lawyers of both parties lie as much as they can to defend a case. I am not underestimating anyone. I am just confident about myself
I don't believe I'm ignorant for being independent. I'm not saying I am going to be alone forever; what I AM saying is, if I do end up alone for whatever reason, I'll be okay with that. I don't need the presence of a man to validate my existence. Sorry, I don't believe in fairy tales and that Prince Charming is going to ride up on a white stallion and take me away from this thing we call "life." And I'm cool with not having that. I honestly don't believe I "need" anyone. I don't! If my opinions change later down the road, fine, but I don't foresee that they will in any drastic measure. I'm not a man-hater -- but I don't need a man in my life in order to feel fulfilled, that's for sure. Men are more trouble than they are worth sometimes! (I'm sure the same can be said for women, too.) We do seem quite a bit alike, especially with the whole independence thing. As I've said time and again, most men are intimidated by an independent woman, and I am quite self-reliant. I don't need anyone to take care of me, and a lot of men don't know how to react to that. I like not knowing what each day will bring... and yeah, it kills me to ask for help, but I am more than happy doling out assistance to those who need it. Oh, and um... yeah... Kartik, I would reevaluate the things you are saying, because in all honesty you are making yourself out to look like a fool.
You know in your heart that you are waiting for some guy , prince charming, who lives upto ur expectations. You never know what a person "THINKS". What if you actually find some guy .. you think he is your prince .. and in reality that prince charming is a bastard, but he lies soo efficiently that you think he is your prince charming, that you are pampered, that you are on seventh heaven. Even you are happy because you get what you want. And even he is happy Never judge what you cannot comprehend
lying always hurts someone... Not at all. I do what I want to do. I just respect others more than to "want" something that would hurt them. I take major risks in my life, in business, in love, in life in general. I've started my business against doubts of everyone I know. I've had the chance to meet and work with incredible people in their fields. I've taken chances on, and opened up to, people that I never would have expected to. I'm writing a book. I'm planning to finance a small independent film w/in the next 3-5 years after the research and planning and editing. I take a risk in every new endeavor I take on, and they're all things I can be proud of and passionate about. If I ever look back on my life and feel like I did nothing, and regret not acting more like a whore, then just shoot me please. And Kartik, I am 100% sure that you don't speak for all men. Heck, even just in this thread we can see that. I surround myself with with a certain caliber of men, and for the most part they're terrific guys. They don't cheat, they don't lie (well I suppose everyone lies about little things on some level, but not like we're talking about here), and they don't hurt people in the name of having some fun in life. Despite the fact that I haven't found one yet where we completely mesh romantically, I know enough of them to have at least a little bit of hope and faith in men still, and can guarantee you don't speak for them all. mightyb - good points. And humor is actually a pretty effective tool. Turning a woman on is a lot easier when you can make us laugh... means more than you'd think. And leet's right. If you respect yourself, even if not the person you're with, you will in fact feel guilty if you lie and cheat. If respect doesn't mean anything to you now, that's fine I suppose on some level. But for the vast majority, someday it will... and it's a lot easier to respect yourself later if you don't screw up "in the now".