What a Women Wants???

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  1. jhmattern

    jhmattern Illustrious Member

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    #161
    It sounds like it made you a little bit bitter. I'm sorry you ended up with the wrong kind of women who treated you like that, but they're really not all like that. There are a lot of women who put the man they're with first... hopefully you'll have better luck in the future. :)

    At least you can admit it was you that screwed it up. ;) j/k
     
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    stephfoster Well-Known Member

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    #162
    That one doesn't work for me. My husband and I were "just friends" for years before we started dating. Watched each other date other people for a long time, then lost contact for 5 years, got back in contact and something just clicked and we started dating each other. Probably helped that neither of us was seeing anyone else at the time.

    I think being friends first helped us. No pretense, we knew plenty about each other and how we treated people in relationships.
     
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  3. Padawan

    Padawan Peon

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    #163
    And I want a challenging woman... but where are they?? Seems most are rather transparent and easily read these days :(
     
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  4. Blogmaster

    Blogmaster Blood Type Dating Affiliate Manager

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    #164
    very true, and women don´t realize that those dudes are just waiting for their shot. And lateron they say ¨it just happend and I don´t know how and why¨ lol
     
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    #165
    9 pages.... to much for me to read but for me what I do is just whip it out, if she wants it she'll go for it like an animal, if not then theres a period of ackward silence while i tuck it back in, then repeat the process...
     
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    #166
    Lmao!!!! :d
     
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  7. jhmattern

    jhmattern Illustrious Member

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    #167
    I don't think all of us are that dumb. ;) Most of my friends used to be men. I tended to do a lot of non-girly things like playing soccer on all-guy's teams, studying auto technology, and getting into engineering in college, and now most of the people I meet are male musicians. Now I tend to push them away a bit, b/c it always got weird when I was with someone... when I am, I keep those male friends at arm's length out of respect for the person I'm with. So we're not all completely naive about the whole "male friend" issue. ;) Most women have dealt with it as least once I'd have to imagine. Some are naive enough to fall for it, and that's their own fault. I'd certainly hope most are smarter than that... just surround yourself with the right ones. ;)

    You could say the same about most men though. Honestly, what I find is that the most challenging men are the ones who tend to be quiet, shy, smart... you're sterotypical "dorky" kind of guy (my favorite more often than not lol). As for women, they're usually the smart ones, sometimes shy and sometimes just too driven to make time for pursuing men.

    The problem isn't that they don't exist on both sides... I think it's that by nature they just happen to be two groups that don't tend to actively pursue one another openly or aggressively enough, so they have a tougher time meeting in the first place.
     
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  8. jhmattern

    jhmattern Illustrious Member

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    #168
    Oh my goodness, that is too funny. lol Well for your ego's sake I hope you don't have to suffer through too much awkward silence. ;)
     
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  9. DeniseJ

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    #169
    The majority of my friends are men. I have a few female friends, but for the most part I seem to "mesh" better with the males. The female friends I do have are older and have already been through what I've experienced in my life, so they can relate to me in a way a lot of women my age cannot hope to do.

    With that being said, I also have a male best friend. He has been there for me through all of my relationships, breakups and the like -- and never once has he tried to "make a move" while I was in a vulnerable state. He realizes that there can be nothing but friendship between us, and he respects that line.

    Male friends are not always the bad guys they seem to be :p
     
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  10. Tometo

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    #170
    That's most of it true (but since i have wife in this forum) I will say that's not all. She wants also man dishwasher (no matter that we have machine one), mutual respect and love.

    Nope - there are (Tiel is one example of that)

    I had fun reading it. Especially one post 5 pages long (when printed) :)

    Well - that's all from me if I want "Permission for docking GRANTED" tonight.
     
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    seoindiaweb Banned

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    #171
    Lol... thats so funny ..
    But you lucky, in India you wont find any machine for dishwash:D
     
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  12. Tiel

    Tiel Peon

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    #172
    Thanks for good words. well you are much greater guy than I expected.

    Of cource she wants everithing - when you are unable to give her even
    but what about all other things like respect, intrest in conversations, etc. I think that you are (may be) one of that guys wich answer "you have new haircut, when she is wearing a gas mask. (that last one was bulgarian joke).

    That's the right decison - if you live in Saudi Arabia (as I said before).

    Well - there are some of this king and i know some of that kind too :(

    I don't think that's true - as you know every village has it's own idiot - same as this extreme feminists.

    Ah - good idea (but only in bed :))

    Sometimes :eek:

    Yes - but i admit at least for me - it's true (sometimes).

    But in most cases if you have relationship with this mowan this make you THE BEST lover, boyfriend she ever had, have, will have.

    Yes women are cool - just as cool as guys. I'm sorry to hear that you are single (for the time being).

    We are, and we don't want anithing more than the free stuff as respect, love, intrest in conversations (and notice the fu*cking gas mask)

    Well - when you choose mistress...

    This one who want's to - find way to do it, the other one who do not want to - find the reason not to do it.
    Just keep searching.

    Of cource there are that kind too - but not all the people wich have "strange" (for macho) behavior are traitors, or secretly in love with the girl.

    Well - then don't, and don't post in here.

    PERMISSION DENIED (you will see that we do not need that d1ck of yours all the time - we have also dildos)
    I'd like to have that printed.

    So at the topic - what women want, and how to ask for sex - almost no one gives an answer.
    So here is the best way I was asked:
    After a disco we decidet to go for a coffee, where one guy from the company come to me and asked for a lighter (even that both (me and him) are nonsmoker) to set on fire his feelings, so I will be abel to see the fireworks comeing from his dreams and watch the aggony of death, because he can not live any more without me. He had it. Two months we get to Paris.

    CYA
     
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  13. Tometo

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    #173
    Well - even that I have - I do not have any reason to use it - she alwais wants to "have space if we have guests". So I have to do it by hand.
     
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    #174
    You will have it printed.
    You wont have that d1ck of mine for a week (I have porn - you know) :)
    That for fireworks was good idea - wasn't it?
     
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    #175
    Just wondering Tometo and Tiel are partners it seems ? are you guys life partners
     
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  16. Tiel

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    #176
    Yes we are married (23.Nov.2006).
     
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    #177
    Yes - but it don't sound so good as it was :kiss:
     
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    #178
    Cool.. happy b'lated marriage day;) Cheers to both of you guys
     
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    #179
    Thanks.
    I hope you will find woman for you soon (if you aren't do that already).
     
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    #180
    Thanks - we are still so happy (but I am punished for ignorance of female charackter.
     
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