Basically if your acct is suspended the ban will probably follow along soon after...Start looking for alternatives.
Did you suspend the site (take it off or put a suspended page), or did Google suspend it? If you have temporarily taken it offline for a day or two, shouldn't cause any issue. Again, from the "high load" comment - you might be better off looking at a different hosting package with higher specs. If Google has sent you a "suspend" letter, I'd consider that serious.
yeah, dont worry about bans or stuff unless your webhost showed some weird parking page while you were suspended
Google spiders can`t make high load if u didn`t choose FASTER option in webmasters tools even you choose it.It won`t make the high load which close your site!