What are you guys beliefs on weed? I don't think it's that big of a problem and I think just a lot of people bad mouth it. Would you have a problem dating someone who smokes it rather than a heavy drinker?
If they are a heavy smoker (toker) then what's the difference? Anyone who drinks or smokes to excess is doing so because they are unhappy with themselves or with life. If you need to become numb through alcohol or have to tune out with pot, then you have a problem. Why associate with someone who can't deal with their problems without substance abuse? They can all hit the road as far as I'm concerned. I have little time for losers, in fact I have no time at all.
In general people who tend to do something to excess is doing a bad thing. To be honest, I like to smoke a joint from time to time. I like the whole calm feeling. I know it's illegal. But hey, rules are there to be broken?