Do you have 3 likes from "3 DIFFERENT" established members? If yes, then you should get the access. If not, then it means you are NOT yet established. Its nothing like whose fault it is! Just get involved in some conversations, be proactive, and see how people get likes so easily. Its not a herculean task friend!
Frankly speaking it probably *is* your fault. If for whatever reason people do not like me, I don't feel sorry for myself and blame them. Instead I look inwards and reaccess, perhaps there's a need for improvement?
We don't *make* people like us. But...you are beginning to get known as a bit of a character. This might end up helping you so try and help others not just yourself, and maybe you will score a like or two.