Best way to apologize...

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  1. #1
    what is the best way to apologize for making a mistake in a buddies relationship?
     
    Nucita, Mar 18, 2013 IP
  2. dtch

    dtch Greenhorn

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    It kind of depends what kind of personality your buddy has. Sometimes it's better to wait until things cool off. Most of the time just saying sorry in a proper tone works. If your buddy isn't approachable, just drop an sms or email :)

    I do that with my dad sometimes LOL. works especially when I know it will go in the wrong direction if we speak face to face.
     
    dtch, Mar 19, 2013 IP
  3. traxport121

    traxport121 Active Member

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    Depends on the other person and the mistake committed. And asking for forgiveness or apology makes a much greater impact than just saying I am sorry. Or saying sorry while holding ears or in a humiliating position is another popular way.
     
    traxport121, Mar 19, 2013 IP
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    SEO Link Manager Active Member

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    Come to that person and say directly for your mistake by heart. According to me, if you realize your mistake and feel bad by heart, then don't shy to accept your fault and say "SORRY" by heart.
     
    SEO Link Manager, Mar 19, 2013 IP
  5. rocksman

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    The modern way is by sending a mobile SMS with word "Sorry" and express of the understanding of your mistake
     
    rocksman, Mar 20, 2013 IP
  6. GMF

    GMF Well-Known Member

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    It might be the "modern" way, but also the most idiotic way to apologise. Best sign to see that you really don't mean it.

    If you REALLY mean to apologize, man up and confront your buddy face to face and tell him. No calling, sms or facebook chat can beat a personal apology.
     
    GMF, Mar 20, 2013 IP
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    i have a suggested for making best apologize . well its depend on your problem,its a love problem or something that you can't tell for someone about your mistake?
    well maybe you have an ego for not to tell about your mistake, here the way.
    first of all, you have to brave to tell your mistake leave your ego . after that you just tell how your apologize with deep of your heart, then make them believe that you will never do that again. ask for apologize, " do you accept my apologize?, i will never do that again in the future", like that.
    trust me you will be forgiven. see you around
     
    safier, Mar 25, 2013 IP
  8. krishmk

    krishmk Well-Known Member

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    We all make mistakes! There is no set protocol on how to apologize.
    Meet your buddy in person; feel what you wanted to say (you know the best about your buddy and what happened). I am sure he would accept your apology.
     
    krishmk, Mar 25, 2013 IP
  9. Jody Allen

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    I agree with that it all depends on the situation.
     
    Jody Allen, Mar 30, 2013 IP
  10. Gianni Palazzo

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    The best way to apologize is by saying it to the person who deserves the apology.
     
    Gianni Palazzo, Apr 2, 2013 IP
  11. ranxlem

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    the best way to apologize to your buddy is to treat him with food. this always works with my best buds. or perhaps, they really like eating that much.
     
    ranxlem, Apr 3, 2013 IP
  12. Popularity Rank

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    I really appreciate your thinking !!!
     
    Popularity Rank, Apr 3, 2013 IP
  13. softsoft

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    if your buddy is a man, just a phone call and a shirt will be enough.
    if your buddy is a woman, gold is a magic, if you can't afford that, you can buy here a purse or a shoe.
     
    softsoft, Apr 5, 2013 IP
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    you should be honest
     
    aNejma, Aug 13, 2013 IP