I really don't known what girls want from this life (in general) but i can tell `u one certain thing... most guys never succeed in their life and this is even worst that you can imagine... most guys will never be (able to ?! ) do anything to succeed in their life... Do you agree with me?! If yes, why the things are this way?! They are to jerk , and they only want to yell "Do you known who I am ?! " or ... they aren't motivated, they feel to insecure (so they will must to cover their insecurity before doing anything) , they feel they belong to a middle class (middle intelligence (IQ/EQ) i mean ) ?! Do you think the problem is appearing because of their parents that want "John" to be a "nice guy with a safe income" , and then they are controlled by their next wife, family problems,etc?! Thanks
Women want men that are confident. Being confident is sexy. It shows you are in control and that you will succeed. Most successful men have confidence. Most men that have all the women have confidence and some are not that attractive, its their confidence that brings the ladies to them.
There is no difference, everyone has an equal opportunity. Gender has nothing to do with it. Most men can't succeed in life? Say that to yourself to see how biased it sounds. Frankly my family has a lot of problems, but it's not like I'm going to develop problems from it. Women want someone that they can appreciate. And if you're that person, well good cookies to you
Success is relative. If you are hung up on status and believe that status symbols such as wealth represent success, then success is relative to the next guy. So success can only happen when other people fail. That's not my definition of success. I don't see it in terms of concrete achievements (a good car, a nice home), and more in terms of being able to do something that fulfills you and that benefits people around you. And having a good time whilst doing it.
Did you really read that, Bender? I got to the fifth chapter, before my hippy-dippy detector kicked in and I couldn't go any further.
Yup. I read the first three but, plan to read the rest as well. After one point he kinda repeats himself but still very inspiring...
Hey, hey! Things are not good or bad, they look so in your perception. If you can’t improve the current situation, you must learn to love it. This really helps! Trust me! If you allow your wife to treat you the way you don’t like, the problem is in you, not in your wife. You always can change the situation. It’s a matter of willingness to do this hard family relationship building work.
That explains it. The first three chapters are okay, but then Hill kinda loses the plot and it gets less useful.
I think it all depends on the person and I don't think that anybody is predisposed to failure, I think that's probably self-sabotage on a subconscious level if anything. Sure, not everybody is going to be pro Footballers or singers just because they want to, but that's more down to genetics and a natural talent you polish than skills you can acquire. I mean, how do you measure success anyway? Money, Happiness, Contentment, How well liked/respected you are or a mixture of all? As for what women look for in men, I don't know if there is a universal rule for this one. Many men are very good looking, have great physiques and are great people, well liked and are very confident but women don't warm to them. Whilst other men are less confident, less good looking, less presentable and women seem to love them. Bare in mind all is not always what it may seem. The guy you see with an apparent endless stream of women may be nothing but a rebound hound who knows his only chance of getting into women is to be there when they're at their lowest ebb, and lo-and-behold, in a short time the woman is back with her ex-boyfriend who she most likely loves or finds somebody else. Sometimes the people who appear the luckiest are in fact the unluckiest, and the grass is always greener, etc. It depends on motives for relationships these days, as a lot of motives aren't for love but for other reasons such as placeholding and control. A lot of women these days are also spurred on by peer-pressure to be 'modern women, in control and wear the trousers' in control of the relationship, and the last thing they are going to do is follow natures call to fall for an alpha male guy for the natural reasons as intended, ie: protection, security and good stock etc, and give their controlling ways up. Many women therefore end up in some kind of amicable agreement where they have so-called boyfriends who they probably aren't attracted to and don't respect the mans masculinity at all just so they can wear the trousers.
Anyone can succeed, man or woman, if they have the desire and dedication to do so. If they constantly believe they're bound to fail, I must agree with Cutting Edge and state that it's their own mind sabotaging their chance at success. As for what women want, isn't that the million dollar question? There isn't one particular standard you can apply to that -- all women want different things. I am content being alone, because I am an independent woman. With that being said, I'd need a man who can respect and understand that I don't need him to take care of me, and I'm not about to take care of him financially -- if he isn't self sufficient, respectful and decent, he's not for me.