Promote your siute via seo and link building campaign. From search engines only you can increase your traffic very effectively. Otherwise if you have enough money then you can adverise at high traffic sites like dp. PPC is another option if you know how to do it properly.
exchange links... that's one of the easiest way and yet the quickest. Also submit to link directories.
its all good increasing traffic, but if the traffic is just having a browse though the site and not doing much, then... ): No point really, i prefer quality traffic were peaple accualy use the site ect..
he is not dumb, but some people like to get attention by contradicting with others with no real reasons
If you are looking to build traffic, one of the best ways is to market your site in relevant forums, groups, and on a blog. Buzz is helpful to get traffic coming in, as is rank. But if your site is relatively new, you're going to have to work much harder to get things lined up to start focussing on SEO. If your website is in a particular niche, consider web rings for your subject matter, joining forums and using a signature to attract potential visitors, and creating content that will be picked up by sites like Digg and Furl.
I got banned 1 time on webhostingtalk.. Why dont try Google Dawords or If you want I can bring you traffic by banners, pop under and doman redirects... Just tell me