There is a saying in India: 'Eda banke peda khana' (hindi) means: Act as a fool and eat sweets... And there is another saying in English: A person who is clever and acts like a fool is not a fool ... I have seen 80% girls in India using this funda and they often put credits on the guys.. Like asking the guys always pretending to be fools... And the guys always answering and feeling proud and egoish...thinking they are gr8 poor guys trapped always Just wanted to know whether this is a worldwide phenomenon or is mostly found in India alone due to it being much more male dominated ... What do you think...... Abhilash.
I firmly believe that one can either be happy or have a girl...both together is not possible...a person who has a girl but still thinks tht he is happy is just hallucinating...sooner or later the dream run is going to come to an end... We friends keep reiterating the slogan 'Ladki nark ka dwar hai' which means that 'A girl is the doorway to hell'. i can go on and on...but i will stop at this at this point of time... Note1: When i say girls above i exclude wives (only married men can comment on tht...i am still a bachelor and hence a novice to comment on tht) Note2: Female boarders (if any) do not take this personally.
Seems like evrywhere is the same ... and evry thing has a price even girls In Romania they are soo stupid but beutifull and if you have money yuo are a "macho" that's all it takes .... this world is to matherialist
It's a trick women use to see how stupid you really are. If you fall for the "dumb" act, then you're too stupid for boyfriend material. But they'll still make you stick around to get anecdotes to tell their friends later.
Funny, I've been with the same girl for 14 years and have never had a problem. In general, I think women are more trustworthy and respectable than men.
Repsectible at times; yes. Trustworthy?!?!? Hell no!!!! I have yet to meet a girl (including my current girlfriend) who is either incredibly scandlist; or talks so much shit that my head hurts because I am so annoyed by it. Personally, I do not like to hold conversations with women when it deals with anything important because usually I am just being fed a line of bull anyways. I just shrug my shoulders and say "eh what is one gunna do?". I hope other people have had better experiences then me. For me though, its all about scandlism. Trust no one!
The exact reason I don't keep them around Every once in a great while one will actually get my interest because of whatever reason. I never let it get to much more of the point of aquaintance though... The drama in the end is really just not worth it. Guy friends are so much easier. We go out; chill; drink some beer and watch some tv or play some games. None of this happend to me and that happpend to me and it was the worse thing ever type of deal <-- that stuff is soooo annoying.
Why do you bother to have a girlfriend at all? Life is too short to spend time with someone you don't respect. I'm guessing you keep her on so you can get laid. Nice, real nice.
No maam. This right here is the type of thing I am talking about. Assuming things before knowing anything and accusing. It's not that I don't respect her or anything along those lines. I just expect bull from her mouth. She can be truthful at times yes, its just annoying when she streams a load of bull when I know she is doing it. That is annoying. I dont hate her for it. It is human nature to alter and change the way things are. She just over does it sometimes. Sorry if I came across as completely disrespecting her; or any woman. Don't get me wrong. I do like women; I do respect them; alot of times more then not though I can't stand them. I know it sounds completely contradicting, but I guess alot of it is just my mood. As for the getting laid part, she begs me for it because I never put out. Although you may disagree with me, I personally am very bored with sex (not because of her, because of me). Sex is the thing everyone else does; its the thing everyone is obsessed with. I know, I understand; we are after all humans. I just happen to look the other way as it doesn't interest me anywhere near as much as things like dirt biking, sky diving, racing etc. Sarahk, I want to apologize for the post above. I didn't mean to pick you out of the crowd with what you said to me; It just started a rant on me (heh). It just happens to be that I notice this scandalism within a lot of people. I am of course talking about males as well !! The way I feel twords women is almost identical to that of a male. The only difference is I can chill with alot of guys without alot of drama, even if at the same time they are drama filled. Guys alot of time just "dont care" about a situation and would rather just chill. Maybe I just have alot of really scandlist people that I consider "friends" and whatnot. As an example; I had a girlfriend who "loved" me to the end of earth. She loved me so much that she cheated on me with both of my two best friends. Now I can't get mad at just her because my supposibly two best friends just screwed me over, and my girl who "loved" me so much. Needless to say I am not in contact with these people anymore. But the people around me I wouldn't put past them to do the same thing given the opportunity. This is the type of lifestyle that I have grown up with and as such; limits my trusting unto other people. I guess I just have a really negative outlook on these things. I am not sure. Thanks for understanding Drew ***RANTING DONE!!***
Ah Drewbe, no harm done. Sounds like you get to hang with the airheads. That said, I see my husband switching off at times but I actually care that he's not that interested so I save those conversations for other people. Sounds like you've struck some girls/women who aren't so emphathetic.
the problem I find with women, is that the grass is always greener on the other side, but that could be because I'm a young 'un
Well that just meant that the above who praised girls are those who fall in 20%. In fact in the opening post itself I mentioned only 80% are like these and I am sure 99.9% of those in dp belong to the rest 20% So guys better to try a chance on one found in this forum. But in general when I speak about the majority of the girls in India, this does hold true.... Abhilash.