Why the people tell a lie

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  1. Spoiltdiva

    Spoiltdiva Acclaimed Member

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    #21
    It's all fear based.People lie to make you like them (fear of rejection).They also lie to make $$$(fear of failure).They lie to attract mates(fear of being alone)They lie to cover up mistakes(fear of critisism)etc.People who have courage and have little fear,tend to be more honest.I equate lieing with cowardice.
     
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  2. sanducen

    sanducen Peon

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    #22
    this is true truth that every person take help of lie because in life come such type of problem there person have no any way of lie.
    So, such type of happen in life.
     
    sanducen, Jul 2, 2011 IP
  3. ayushi infotech

    ayushi infotech Peon

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    #23
    It depend upon situations to protect themselves and relatives they will tell lies.
     
    ayushi infotech, Jul 2, 2011 IP
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    Achiever Well-Known Member

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    #24
    i think that lie it happen against our wish so we can describe that.....
     
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  5. nisha.sharma

    nisha.sharma Peon

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    #25
    Everthing is not true. There should be a mixture of it.
     
    nisha.sharma, Jul 4, 2011 IP
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    chinasa Peon

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    #26
    Sometimes you lie so as not to hurt the feelings of those you love. Its like you can't avoid it so you have to lie.
     
    chinasa, Jul 4, 2011 IP
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    tourindia Peon

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    #27
    I agree with Jenny4u, because its depend upon situation.
     
    tourindia, Jul 4, 2011 IP
  8. juggalox

    juggalox Member

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    #28
    To escape and avoid problems.
     
    juggalox, Jul 6, 2011 IP
  9. leppozdrav

    leppozdrav Greenhorn

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    #29
    i read somwhere once, that people on average say around 20 lies per day. (small ones like: how you doin? good) people lie not to be bothered i guess.
     
    leppozdrav, Jul 6, 2011 IP
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    redhat01 Greenhorn

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    #30
    It's simple. They lie because they are liars.
    "to escape and avoid problems", "to protect themselves", "fear of rejection" etc.... are just bad excuses !
     
    redhat01, Jul 6, 2011 IP
  11. leppozdrav

    leppozdrav Greenhorn

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    #31
    but imagine telling everything directly with no lies....For example couple gets a baby, baby is ugly....will you be honest and say...damn this is an ugly baby:) people lie and are not necceserly liers.
     
    leppozdrav, Jul 6, 2011 IP
  12. dyanaangel

    dyanaangel Active Member

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    #32
    to hide their mistakes..
     
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  13. leppozdrav

    leppozdrav Greenhorn

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    #33
    there are good and bad lies
     
    leppozdrav, Jul 6, 2011 IP
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    #34
    circumstances forces us to tell a lie....
     
    Ajay Bhargava, Jul 7, 2011 IP
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    #35
    Sometimes its better to save relations just be careful dont repeat the thing which you are hiding or lieing around for.
     
    codepro777, Jul 7, 2011 IP
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    #36
    people lie just because to get the reward for his/her self or just to make excuses
     
    justaskismall, Jul 7, 2011 IP
  17. escape.fromm.freedom

    escape.fromm.freedom Peon

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    #37
    Ask Gregory House, M.D.
     
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  18. justaskismall

    justaskismall Peon

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    #38
    the best answer is----> ask yourself why you lie somebody.....
     
    justaskismall, Jul 7, 2011 IP
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    #39
    People tell a lie mostly for escaping troubles, I think. I try best not to do that because hiding a lie is more troublesome sometimes.
     
    sohpia z, Jul 7, 2011 IP
  20. tusharbatra

    tusharbatra Active Member

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    #40
    I totally agree with him
    One lie leads to hundreds of lie, so its better to be honest in starting only :)
     
    tusharbatra, Jul 7, 2011 IP