do you give second chances

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    Be honest do you forgive them
     
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  2. Derekk88

    Derekk88 Active Member

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    Forgiveness and second chances are not the same. I forgive everyone, meaning I don't hold a grudge or hate. But if trust has been violated significantly a second chance will not be offered. That would be unwise. Forgive yes! Forget no.
     
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    Yes always it tells us to in the bible
     
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    When a precedent is set chances are always significantly against you to happen again.Since i am not a masochist i never give second chances.
     
    A Writter, Jul 3, 2011 IP
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    as far as possible i forgive always..........
     
    Achiever, Jul 3, 2011 IP
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    Digital_shubhi Illustrious Member

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    #6
    Only good people can forgive someone. :)
    I try to do it most of the time. :p
     
    Digital_shubhi, Jul 3, 2011 IP
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    Yes i even give third chance but only if the person has place for it...
     
    arshid, Jul 3, 2011 IP
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    Spoiltdiva Acclaimed Member

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    I do forgive but only after I've evened the score.I believe getting even is about self respect and determant.I get even to the point that most people won't f..k with me.(determant) If one is too forgiving then some will see that as a weakness and come after you.It's a tough world and one has to be tough to survive it.
     
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    God is mercyfull than whay we dont do the same thing for other people?
     
    moffey, Jul 3, 2011 IP
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    everyone do mistake....so there is no wrong to give second or third chance. but it will be repeated means no way better we leave it ..
     
    ayushi infotech, Jul 3, 2011 IP
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    I do forgive if the person is worth it.
     
    tazseo, Jul 3, 2011 IP
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    It can be said that man is made to commit mistakes and someone should be there to give another chance.
     
    nisha.sharma, Jul 4, 2011 IP
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    #13
    It depends on people to people and their situations...
     
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    i will forget if person accept his mistake.
     
    tourindia, Jul 4, 2011 IP
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    yes always I give 2nd chance
     
    JPaul, Jul 5, 2011 IP
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    #16
    I forgive very hard usually no ....
     
    w3bmaster, Jul 5, 2011 IP
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    i forgive but i don't forget...
     
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    It all depends on the nature of the relationship and the mistake made. I have made mistakes and I have been forgiven and vice versa, but, at times you have no option but to write that person off and just stay away from them.
     
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    As far as possible i give him second chance.
     
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    I forgive and give second chance, if the person wants to fix mistake he made.
     
    g36, Jul 5, 2011 IP