Cyber Bullying

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by Spoiltdiva, Jul 2, 2011.

  1. #1
    Hello all,this is my 1st thread here on DP.Unfortunatly the subject matter is somewhat negative.Hardly a good way to begin my thread history huh?
    DP is better than most sites as far as cyber bullies go.They are few in number here.However we have one who is a cancer to DP.This guy only posts negative putdowns while contributing nothing.Some people it appears have nothing better to do than use sarcasm(the lowest form of wit)to make themselves feel powerful.Like all bullies this guy is a coward.He only goes after women(sexist)and only polite feminine types knowing that they will not retaliate.Oh how I hope he tries to go after me ha!
    Anyway I posted to him so he knows who he is.
    Do any of you have an opinion on cyber bullying? I think it has no place on here.People ought to be able to post without a social misfit putting them down.
     
    Spoiltdiva, Jul 2, 2011 IP
  2. The Webby

    The Webby Peon

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    You know what is the best feature of a forum, which is also happen to be your most powerful weapon against cyber bullies?

    The "IGNORE" button.. You dont like anyone, put them in iggy bin. There you go, problem solved, wasn't hard, was it?
     
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  3. Spoiltdiva

    Spoiltdiva Acclaimed Member

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    #3
    @The Webby
    I cannot simply "ignore" when this guy comes after people.He goes on just about every thread I visit.So your advice wasn't helpful.
     
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  4. Bohra

    Bohra Prominent Member

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    umm lemme guess is this guy Project Mobius ? neways you cant do much you dont like it you ignore simple
     
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  5. Spoiltdiva

    Spoiltdiva Acclaimed Member

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    @Bohra
    You nailed it on the head,you got it right.How did you guess? I'm not a passive type,all this advice on simply ignoring won't work.I prefer to fight not ignore.I'm going to fight this guy,maybe I'll get banned but that's o.k. because I'll take him with me.
     
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  6. Revelations-Decoder

    Revelations-Decoder Well-Known Member

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    I have an opinion on cyber bullying - I FREAKING WELL HATE IT!!! (That's with a uc and no R)

    Yes I shouted that (Shoot Me)

    Cuber Bullying should not be allowed here or anywhere else for that matter

    It ruins lives

    I know this first hand as my Niece was a victim of cyber bullying on Facebook by so called "ex friends" and she refused to go to school and I even had to arrange a move to another school for her b4 we got it sorted

    Luckily I bumped in to a few of the girls Mum's in Asda (The UK's Wallmart) and had words with them and it all got sorted

    But if it can have that much effect on my Niece I can only imagine the mental trauma others cam experience when subjected to this online sickness called Cyber Bullying.
     
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  7. Spoiltdiva

    Spoiltdiva Acclaimed Member

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    @Revelations-Decoder
    Thanks,well said.
     
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  8. saladflorida

    saladflorida Well-Known Member

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    Project Mobius huh? lol
     
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  9. Spoiltdiva

    Spoiltdiva Acclaimed Member

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    @saladflorida
    Ya I tried to ignore him,but I'm done with that now.I've watched him insult and mock for about a week since I joined up.I'm done just merely watching.I'm now going to stop being nice and will be a Spoiltdiva! Trust me hun,I'm the last person anyone wants to tangle with on here.
     
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  10. saladflorida

    saladflorida Well-Known Member

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    and hey, look, he's canadian, too :D maybe you could just ask for his real address hun ? :D i always wonder how this guy like him look like :p
     
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  11. Spoiltdiva

    Spoiltdiva Acclaimed Member

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    @saladflorida
    He's Canadian? Oh lord now I am embarrassed! Ever notice how cyber bullies never post their real pic on these sites? They always want to hide behind their anonymity.He is more than likely a pencil neck geek with no social life or friends....(loser).
     
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  12. saladflorida

    saladflorida Well-Known Member

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    you don't have to, jerk and loser are everywhere. Can't blame a country or the whole people from a country just because of one crazy person
     
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  13. Spoiltdiva

    Spoiltdiva Acclaimed Member

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    @saladflorida
    Thanks.
     
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  14. The Webby

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    Of course you can fight if you have that much time in your hand.. It's a matter of choice..

    My opinion on cyber bullying?
    It's bad for kids, but if you are a grown up then it shouldn't affect you. If you take internet little too seriously, may be you gotta sit down and do some rational thinking.

    Cyber bullying doesn't affect me, I don't care if someone calls me names. I don't have too much time in my hands to fight over internet. I like clam discussions and gentleman arguments but if gets out of hands, I simply walk away and/or ignore the offender. But that's just me...

    PS: Some people are trolls, they post outrageous stuffs to get a certain reply. It's called flame bait. They bait you, they want you to get angry so they can have some lulz at your expense. If you fight, you give them exactly what they want.
     
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  15. Spoiltdiva

    Spoiltdiva Acclaimed Member

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    @The Webby
    You do make sense,I'll give you that.I agree with you sir to a point.But.......I will admit to a bit of a vindictive streak.I am not a peace loving person when someone refers to me as a "noob".So I don't like the guy and...well that's just me.
     
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  16. The Webby

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    Ahh.. I call that noob phobia. Few old members of any community are noob phobic, they wont admit but they are scared of noobs.. They will go to any length just to offend and scare the newbie away.
    When you see a noob phobic, laugh'em off. You will almost give them a heart attack, trust me.
     
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  17. Spoiltdiva

    Spoiltdiva Acclaimed Member

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    @The Webby
    I'll take your advice from now on with "noob phobics".But this guy has the maturity level of a 12 year old.He just gets under my skin.So we will see how the thing plays out.He simply refuses to play nice,is impolite and has a disregard for hurting peoples feelings.I've got to see this thing through.Let him take his ire on me instead of others.As you doubtless picked up on....I like to fight.....but won't start a fight....just finish it.
    I took on a corporate lawyer last year and won.Might have gone to my head and ego ha*ha!.....[o]
     
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  18. etc

    etc Well-Known Member

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    Whoever project mobydick is, You just gived him a spotlight here. That will make him feel like he's awesome like the dead GG Allin.
     
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  19. BJB1997

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    I was on explosim.net forum and its full of cyber bullies , i recommend no one uses there forums.
    and i a total newb so they were very harsh...
     
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  20. Spoiltdiva

    Spoiltdiva Acclaimed Member

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    @etc
    Good point and one that I ought to consider.It may be counter productive to continue this nonsense.I will have to ponder,hmmmm.
    @BJB1997
    Welcome newcomer,I am new here too,just been here a few days.But I am experienced with forums and blogs.DP is a good place BJ,I can assure you.I would like to make it a better place.If I'm going about it the wrong way,then I want people to call me out on it.
     
    Spoiltdiva, Jul 2, 2011 IP