You said it in one, my little princess' are not even interested in sex edu especially sitting there with the whole class, they would rather be interested in physical education, history, english, french, maths etc not sitting there talking about cock and fanny. I will teach my children to drive then they can go with the professional just to get their pass paper, oh i have 5 children and i never had sex edu, any chance you can work that one out, cos i am baffled at how i achieved that. There are more kids getting pregnant today than 20 years ago, i say its down to the professional sex edu and then it spills out into the playground or campus, fuck me (ooops) kids are doing it in the toilets and after school time where the stud has told the girl he loves her but he only loves the tingling sensation in his pants, gets to have sex with her and moves on to the next girl and so on, now later on in life that girl who thinks that the boys love her is a single mother due to the fact that she has probably gone through most boys in her area, and they are not interested any more because they are now looking for the respected girls or princesses that did not have sex edu and are pure as they say. Driving instructors are doing it for money and a living, most instructors will have a client for years even though she/he is a great driver, he is doing it for the cash not for the client. Letting your daughter be free is in my opinion dangerous due to the fact that the stud is out their and hunting with no mercy. Would you rather your son have a bad name or your daughter in the sex world, stud or ho? My kids are precious my life and nobody is going to teach them about having sex, they will learn naturally, as for my sons, well, give her one from me son, my daughters, when they are ready to be in a relationship i will be following her everywhere she goes and ready to pounce on the him if he shows interest in just one thing.
Because the sex ed classes in High School are NOT a "how to have sex class". If someone wants to learn about sex techniques, positions, etc. then there are plenty of magazine articles, TV shows and the internet for that. It is NOT taught in high school. As I have said before, MANY times they are there to teach mostly about the risks of sexual activity, and ways to mitigate these risks. Knowing HOW TO have sex doesn't require much education... inserting your tool in a vagina is not complicated, even an illiterate man living in a cave knows how. (I am not insulting you or saying this is you, it's just an example). Let me use another one of my examples to illustrate this. Everyone knows how a gun works. You point, and pull the trigger. I could hand you a loaded ak-47 and you can use it even if you have never touched a firearm before. But will you know about how to use it safely? How to hold it securely? Will you know to keep your finger off the trigger when not shooting, to point in a safe direction, know what's behind your target, how to remove the magazine and eject all ammo when you are done?? Unless you have receive some safety instruction beforehand, you probably won't. Just because your kids don't go to a sex ed class, it doesn't mean that they will never hear, or see anything about sex. What do you think teenagers talk about in school? Sex is one of the topics. 16 year olds don't just sit there and draw rainbows, unicorns and puppies, you know. Teenage pregnancy is not due to sex education, but rather a lack of it. If a teen has received the proper info, she will know that there is birth control available to prevent this. As for the sex in bathrooms, after school, on campus, etc. this is not a result of sex ed. but of society's increased tolerance for casual sex. And if you have sex in a car, in a bathroom, in an alley, etc. then this is most often just a fling, a "hook up" or casual sex. Both parties involved, the guy and girl wanted to have sex and that's what they did. They both understand that they just want to share pleasure and not build a relationship. Nobody is a victim in that case. Remember, women enjoy the pleasure that comes from sex as much as men, and they get "hot" too sometimes. If she is a single mother, then it is most often due to poor relationship choices, which is something that is more complicated than just sex. Many relationships break down after a few years, it happens to everyone, rich, poor, educated or not. A guy who simply wants sex will never agree to commit himself to a long term relationship for years, move in to live with the girl and have kids with her. He will only visit her when he wants to have sex. Plus, I highly doubt that many guys who go around screwing everything that moves will do a 180 turn and then decide they want a "pure" girl who knows nothing about sex. This will make them nothing but hypocrites, just like a thief who says "stealing is bad". There are many men, myself included, who prefer a woman that is more "experienced" as these women tend to be more adventurous, more playful and more willing to try new things in bed. Much more fun than a girl who turns 10 shades of red and hides behind the couch whenever she hears the word "sex". There are plenty of dangerous things that teenagers do every day. A 16 year old can operate industrial equipment, drive a car, fly an airplane, hunt with a rifle, etc. All of these can cause serious damage or death if done improperly. If they are mature enough to do this, then they are responsible enough to chose to have sex if they want to. Besides, we are talking about TEENAGERS and not 9 year old kids here. They will be adults in 2-3 years anyways. I will, of course, not encourage my daughter to have sex. But if she does, I will not throw a fit and yell, I will accept her choice. I want her at least to do it safely, and have someone to talk to about it if she ever doesn't feel comfortable talking to me about it. Being overprotective and constantly on a teenager's back can turn around and backfire against you very badly. If they WANT to have sex, they will do it, especially if they want to rebel against you for being too controlling. Either that, or simply pack their bags and leave the minute they become an adult and turn 18, never seeing you again. Besides, what am I supposed to do if my daughter decides she wants to have sex? What would you do? Beat her up? Chain her to the wall? No thanks. I don't want to end up a few months in the slammer with a "felony assault" record. Do you? As for a bad name, in today's Western society, no girl will get a bad name just because she had sex with a few guys. In order to achieve a bad reputation, she would have to have sex with almost a different guy every few days for that to happen.
Thank you, this is the point I was making. The primary focus of sex ed is safety and prevention, which CAN save lives. High school sex ed does NOT to teach how to perform various sex acts nor does it teach teens "Hey! Let's all have sex 5 times a day! Youppiiiii!!"
I understand what your saying but sex education gets the boys thinking as testosterone kicks in, even if there was no sex edu in schools its the boys that come out with lies just to get there ends away, i need to keep my girls away from them and away from the girls that have already taken part sex, got pregnant and tell my girls its ok to do sex and getting a baby. Sex is a private thing and it will stay private with my princesses. How do you do that thing with quotes in your post i cant work it out.
Copy paste my text you want to quote, highlight it and then click the little quote bubble that displays a "Wrap Quote Tags Around Selected Text". The attitude of boys and men will vary, some will be honest and say directly that they just want sex, while as you mentioned correctly, some will use lies and pretend they want a relationship or that they love a girl just to get sex. This is not only true in teenage years, but in adult life as well. The best way to go about this is to talk to her about this fact that you mentioned honestly, and without threats or exaggerations (i.e. all boys are lying and just want to get in your pants/I will throw you on the street if you do anything with a boy, etc.) Tell her about some of the dangers of having sex and why it is better if she doesn't do it. You can try to keep her away, but in our world, you will not be able to shield her from anything related to sex completely if she ever goes out of the house or goes to school with other teenagers. There is talk, gossip and jokes about sex even outside of sex ed in school. Unless you want to sit next to her in high school, but I don't think they would allow you to I know many parents who have tried to "hide" sex from their teenage girls and failed completely. I understand that certain topics such as sex/violence/drugs/etc. can be quite sensitive, but in my opinion the best approach is one of education and openly presenting true facts, rather than trying to hide these things as if they don't exist in our world.
That is a good post there. My whole point , using your hyperbole, is that buying a car that can reach 150 miles per hour to a young person is a tad silly thing for a parent to do. You cannot expect a teenager who has more hormones than brains to make a sane assessment of the risk. My daughter is 5, so hopefully I have 7 or even 8 years free of worry, but once she starts fucking around she will be considered an adult and will have rent/bills to pay , with a strong encouragement to leave the nest for good, she will have to get a job and all that, and I dont care if she will get arrested for running an illegal lemonade stand or something like that. If you are ready to fuck, then you are ready to take care of yourself and your bastard(s) , welcome to the real life sweetie-pie.