It's difficult to define - the painting and statues of Rome might be considered erotic - the ancient Sunga art of Japan might be considered pornographic. The same would apply when one compares D.H. Lawrence and Henry Miller. Personally I think if the characters portrayed have a loving relationship it is erotic, if it is based on casual sexual gratification - then I think it is pornography. That's just my opinion.
Soft or not, its still porn. Its like having a download website with illegal content and saying "but 95% of it is legal....".
Sooner or later you will receive that dreaded email saying your account has been closed,i would not even take that chance but its your account after all.
What about hard porn? soft or hard, it's still called porn = against google's adsense terms. your account will be disabled, if you are lucky you might receive a warning. Good luck
well ... would you/Google consider Lingerie and/or Bikini girls as porn? Bikini Girls - they still have clothes on covering their private parts. So where is the drawn with all of this? What is a state of undress that is considered porn. ie. if any part of a womans body is exposed, then its porn? Sounds like we're under taliban rule here.
7Search.com Their ads look very similar to adsense. They pay by check and wire transfer. They allow adult publishers. Ads can be targeted by keyword input. Standard sizes and other tools. http://7search.com you can see some of their ads running here I believe its what you're looking for.