I am feeling very lonely

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  1. mreb1010

    mreb1010 Peon

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    #41
    As long as you have the internet, you have people to talk with. It's not the same as cuddling with someone but it sure beats sitting in silence listening to the TV or radio
     
    mreb1010, Jan 26, 2011 IP
  2. musichangout.com

    musichangout.com Well-Known Member

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    #42
    I too suggest this one, Once you get in to all these . You want to become lonely and spend some time in peace for sure :p
     
    musichangout.com, Jan 26, 2011 IP
  3. capstonic

    capstonic Well-Known Member

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    #43
    Join social media if you are alone.
     
    capstonic, Jan 26, 2011 IP
  4. ExaMike

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    #44
    relax... don't be sad.. your life become better..
     
    ExaMike, Jan 26, 2011 IP
  5. cluongo18

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    #45
    Usuaully just sitting on the computer wont help fix that unless your interacting with people like on here. But you need to get out and do something, even if its with yourself. Go to a coffee shop, bring your laptop, work on some websites.

    Everyone feels a little blue for no reason every now and then, thats life.
     
    cluongo18, Jan 26, 2011 IP
  6. ashley01

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    #46
    just listen to music
     
    ashley01, Jan 27, 2011 IP
  7. surbhi.gvt

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    #47
    Then what you doing here jst go and listen some music and talk with friends definately u forget your loneliness.
     
    surbhi.gvt, Jan 27, 2011 IP
  8. alodia

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    #48
    Get busier than ever to forget your loneliness or try to love someone that will accept and love you too.
     
    alodia, Jan 27, 2011 IP
  9. jesse2

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    #49
    I am feeling very lonely too
     
    jesse2, Jan 27, 2011 IP
  10. frycek

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    #50
    Oh no, me too ;) Guys, do something to make you busy and problem solved :)
     
    frycek, Jan 27, 2011 IP
  11. massjo

    massjo Active Member

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    #51
    oneday every one will be lonely, so take it easy dude.
     
    massjo, Jan 27, 2011 IP
  12. pikimaroo

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    #52
    Don't be lonely, just go on chat roulette and chat with someone. Don't forget, there is always irc... it aint dead yet :)

    Oh... and DON'T allow yourself to spiral into depression and self pity. There are a lot of people worse off than you, in many parts of the world these people don't even have access to clean water and food and live everyday of their lives in fear. You at least have access to a computer and a great forum with people who actually care about your welbeing.

    You have to learn how to love yourself before people can love you.

    When times are at their worst, it usually means something great and wonderful is just around the corner... stay positive. Positive energy attracts people.
     
    pikimaroo, Jan 28, 2011 IP
  13. facebook-applications

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    #53
    yeah give a try you will find many people who really cares for you
     
    facebook-applications, Jan 28, 2011 IP
  14. l33tp4n3g3

    l33tp4n3g3 Well-Known Member

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    #54
    I feel the same way as you. Believe me...it freaking sucks. I'm so lonely, that crying is part of my daily routine. The only way is to find someone to love. If circumstances allow it, you should be able to. However, you need to find a person that you can love in the way you want to. Sure, you may find someone who loves you, but you also need to love them. The need to love and be loved is the third level in Abraham Maslows hierarchy of needs. If you can't satisfy that need, you will never feel psychologically healthy and that can't be bypassed through any other means than finding a good friend.

    Now, some of the people on this thread may say that at least you have a house to live in, water, food to eat, etc and you should just appreciate what you have, but for those of you who haven't felt this way yet, it can be far worse than just lacking your basic needs. Even if you have everything you need to live and a million dollars, I'm sure you wouldn't be happy if you felt lonely as an ant stranded on an island alone. Just something to note. Money and peace of mind isn't everything. Without an ounce of love or belonging, it can feel just as bad as not eating anything for weeks strait.
     
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    l33tp4n3g3, Jan 28, 2011 IP
  15. ayushi infotech

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    #55
    hey massjo ur correct nice posting lol
     
    ayushi infotech, Jan 28, 2011 IP
  16. ayushi infotech

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    #56
    some times i am also feel lonely and get boring but i adjust myself ......
     
    ayushi infotech, Jan 28, 2011 IP
  17. pikimaroo

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    #57
    that's really simple but great advice. just snap out of it and be awesome!
     
    pikimaroo, Jan 29, 2011 IP
  18. mike323

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    mike323, Jan 30, 2011 IP