Kinda over friendly! or i can say extra caring, don't know her exact nature. Wherever there are women, i keep off them. -S Not in my network provider.... -S Hopefully i do...Jesus...:-/ I didn't text her last night (i didn't text her anything, nor i am in a mood to talk to her...) Will post any updates here, not sure what you mean "obsessed with ya" Ya i am keeping off her now
you said that you will ignore her for 2 days so just ignore her 1 day left then tell her not to call me or text me or don't meet me
This thread was too long to read all the replies, that said; If you are actually a loyal person then you need to make it very clear to this girl that you love your wife and do not want anything to do with her. Based on your avatar you're a Muslim (although the avatar is actually for a guy's website involved in porn, so I don't know why you'd use it) and I imagine a faithful one as I saw your thread that said you proposed to your wife in temple. Isn't it against your religion to carry on texting this woman, socializing with her, etc? I mean it's not on the level - the fact she only wants you at her party is VERY dodgy and it is disrespectful to your marriage and to your wife. Seriously, the girl is crazy and you are silly for encouraging it by not putting an end to immediately. Do the right thing by your wife and cut this girl out of your life.
Tell you what? I had sold my avatar, and i don't think you should call me a muslim just coz i am using an avatar....you can browse around and check how many users use this same avatar, don't just assume anything on your own.
Oh right, the avatar has changed - sorry. See, until very recently the blue avatar of menj's was for a website providing somewhat questionable advice to muslims. Sorry that you were so offended by the idea you'd be a muslim, previously almost everyone here using that avatar was a muslim. Anyway, obviously you aren't or you wouldn't be offended by it, lol, so sorry - OK? As to the rest of it, you're acting like you're mad this girl keeps getting in touch, but have you actually told her to stop? Or changed your number? Because whining about it wont help if you haven't done either of those things. (I'm not saying you haven't, I don't know, I'm asking.) I don't know what "Tell you?" meant in your first line. I didn't say "Tell me" I don't think.
Sorta poor advice...Are you a relationship expert? OP, i'm really sorry to read that. I'm not very much "wise" about that, but I can, for sure, wish you best of luck with that Sarim.
who tell u that m relationship expert I just suggest my opinion when nobody want to suggest. at least because my opinion he got start & now more ppl helping to solve his problem
You found yourself in quite a dilemma. For one this girl obviously does not respect your marriage. If she did she would not be pursuing you like this. On your part I see that you made no mention about your reaction other than you're trying to avoid her. I think you need to firmly make it clear to her that you are happily married and do not want anything to do with her. Even keeping her as a friend is not advised just based on my understanding of her feelings for you. I am married and believe me when I say that as much as I trust my husband I will not sanction any type of communication like this between him and another woman. Furthermore I give him the same type of respect that I demand from him. In this case your wife is really a saint, God bless her heart. No one ever purposely sets out to have an affair (well at least I hope so) but whenever we stick around and play with fire instead of running as far away as we can we will soon get burned. Stay away from this girl! In my culture, even gifting her with a present says at some level that you are interested but that's a whole other can of worms that I just don't want opened
Hi Yeah, i agree with @deutsched , she's obsessed with you.I had a few experiences like yours. What i think is the best to do, is try to explain her (with calm) you ar happy with your fammily and you dont want troubles.And if she doesnt understand, avoid her 100%. Secoind advice, talk with your wife and prepair her for what the girl may do to hurt you. After all you have your life, and your things to do, your not her psicologist to be so carrefull with what you say and how you act.
You answered your own question, keep distant. You don't need her, you said you have a wife. You don't want to end up paying for two families, while living with only one.
Everybody saying the same thing to avoid her. still u want any ideas as I say I am not relationship expert but who r expert like married ppl they telling the same thing that I say before. Please do as soon as possible Regards. Wish you a happy married life.