As long as you have the following three qualities in you, I don't think love or arranged should matter. - Love - Understanding - Trust Apart from that, it also depends on the family traditions and mentalities. No matter whatever the case is, if you don't have the above three qualities, you will never live a happily married life.
I am talking about family traditions. But since your mind is corrupt, you cant think of anything else.
You are obviously from a part of India called Karela, and i bet no matter what amazing woman you met, first of all you would not know what to say, and second if by some miracle you got her into bed you wouldn't know what to do with your two incher, and third even if she was the most wonderful wife material in the world you would not have the guts or the balls to marry her against your parents' wishes, and fourth, you would still want your bloody dowry more than anything.. so the question, coming from you is absurd and irrelevant. Don't worry buddy just wait a year or two your parents will capture some hapless girl, hogtie her and bring her to you, and you can finally experience some s-e-x !!! Pathetic !!!!
You're full of shit, frankly. I have been with my partner for many, many years now - because we are in love. He has seen me without makeup more than 1500 mornings, he has seen me with a gaping, bleeding wound, he has seen me eat ribs (they're a messy food), he has seen me throw up and held my hair and stroked my back as I did so. We are more in love now than we were 1, 2, or even 5 years ago. A marriage lasts because two people are in LOVE (no, not "lust", get some life experience) and that is why we have been so successful, and will continue to be so. Some people do hook up because of lust, but don't you downplay LOVE because you have never experienced it. Unless your just a pathetic little troll?
If two people are going to spend the rest of their lives together it better damn well be because of love. I can't see myself wanting to be a part of an arranged marriage. Would I like to spend all my life with a woman my family thinks I should marry? And equally importantly, would the woman want to spend all her life with me? Love FTW.
I prefer love marriages over arranged marriages.In love marriage you choose the person yourself but in arranged marriage you run a risk of less understanding and a feeling of dissatisfaction for whole life if the partner you get is not good.