Wow, This is a truly deep thread, I feel for you... I hope your wife is getting better I'd love to hear more on this.. I really think your a saint, Sticking through this mess for a woman you love, a True gentleman...
What would you do if your wife actually secretly sells clickbank products online and she uses DP to get awesome techniques on marketing her online products and she comes across this thread saying she's mad? ...... i think maybe you and your tomato plants will have some answering to do Oh man although I do feel for you, I was thinking the other day about maybe getting some tomato plants but this sounds like it might be a bad idea. maybe she was just asking in an overly excited way, you should have answered 'im just tending to our food for the next few months? unless you want too go without tomato's in your salad?'
Communication is the key to any relationship, my friend. It holds things up. Without openness and being able to talk to one another, there's nothing holding the relationship up, and it will crumble. There are exceptions, such as when relationships are built on money or power, but that's rare.
consul to to Eric Cartman of South Park ... * just kidding Use third party, may be through your wife relatives or best friends.