A Answer From your Heart

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by kmamaji, Jul 3, 2010.

  1. #1
    Here is what i want to know, a one liner question which should be answer from your heart if not then please don't bump your post count.

    Why we hurt them whom we love most in our life?

    Can you answer that question?
     
    kmamaji, Jul 3, 2010 IP
  2. nnsjw702

    nnsjw702 Active Member

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    #2
    Because you love them the most and take everything for granted, that is reason why we make a small thing a big issue, ultimately hurting our loved ones.

    But if the person you love, loves you too then he will come back or another day.
     
    nnsjw702, Jul 3, 2010 IP
  3. pratishtha

    pratishtha Well-Known Member

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    #3
    i feel we don't do it intentionally.. it happens unintentionally because they have more expectations from us compared to others!
     
    pratishtha, Jul 3, 2010 IP
  4. kmamaji

    kmamaji Peon

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    #4
    I like your answer but it looks like professional not emotional.

    Wow! it touch my heart. :)
     
    kmamaji, Jul 3, 2010 IP
  5. nnsjw702

    nnsjw702 Active Member

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    May be you are right with what you said, but I have always thought in this way.
    and my friend @pratistha: you are right, we don't do it intentionally, and expectations always leads to misunderstandings.
     
    nnsjw702, Jul 3, 2010 IP
  6. kmamaji

    kmamaji Peon

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    #6
    All have their own thoughts and they are free to think from there heart/mind but pratishtha thoughts touches my heart, he/she thinks same exactly what i think. :)
     
    kmamaji, Jul 3, 2010 IP
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    ajhen Peon

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    #7
    we unintentionally hurt the one we love because they love us...they will not get hurt if they don't really love us...
     
    ajhen, Jul 3, 2010 IP
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    nnsjw702 Active Member

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    #8
    Why our loved ones shouldn't get hurt?
    they are also human beings like us and every one who has heart will get hurt.
     
    nnsjw702, Jul 3, 2010 IP
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    #9
    By hurting they will come near and near.
     
    Achiever, Jul 3, 2010 IP
  10. nnsjw702

    nnsjw702 Active Member

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    #10
    Yes you are right, but this does not applies if the misunderstanding increases.
    Trust is the most important thing and it is only what makes relationship stay long.
     
    nnsjw702, Jul 3, 2010 IP
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    #11
    the hurt is what makes the relationship better
     
    looking4vps, Jul 3, 2010 IP
  12. kmamaji

    kmamaji Peon

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    #12
    Really, but sometime it becomes a reason of breakups.
     
    kmamaji, Jul 3, 2010 IP
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    #13
    because we are humans and make mistakes, we are curious and as they say curiosity kills the cat, we are not contented with what we have and we only appreciate it when we lost it.
     
    darkrider919, Jul 5, 2010 IP
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    We don't hurt. Its unintentional but when hurt are around there in lives then we come to know the value of love & care..
    same If you never have been suffer through poverty you will never come to know the real joy of wealth.
     
    ghyper.com, Jul 5, 2010 IP
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    Grimm Peon

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    #15
    Nice question but somewhat broad don't you think?

    Unintentionally, we hurt our loved ones because we care for them even in the smallest things.

    If you hurt someone because you cheated on your wife for example then that's another story.
     
    Grimm, Jul 5, 2010 IP
  16. Mr.Andi jemma

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    #16
    Everything we return to ourselves in the hearts and minds of our own feelings because humans have a conscience to do that in the underlying wisdom with a sense of affection and love
     
    Mr.Andi jemma, Jul 7, 2010 IP