I have made a decision to hold off possibly indefinetly on having kids and a family to pursue my dreams, since my dreams have nothiing to do with having kids of starting a family. So if in the near future I had a kid or started a family I would consider myself a loser thats why I always use birth control. I also see so many complete losers I mean look at the inner citys of America were 16 year olds are having kids. Or most people in poor country's like India, China, Bangledesh. Allot are complete losers who have done nothing else but crap out another loser of a kid to complete the hopeless cycle of poverty and desperation. so the question is do most people who have kids do it because they are complete losers and have decided having a kid might give there life purpose. Or do you think they are successful? But also remember there are nearly 7 Billion people on the earth so its not like its that hard a thing to do.
Mate, in all honesty I'm 18 right now. I'm engaged to my beautiful girl, and in the next say, 3-5 years we plan on starting our family once we own our house. I think it's a winner, if you really love that person enough you will want to start a family with them, having a kid is great. Mojachie.
but is providing for a family your dream? To me that would be hell having people dependent on me when I want to do other things I just see many people who have had kids and regret the kids and hold them and their wife resposible for ruining their life many many people like this
To me children enrich your life, that is what our 3 did for us, and the same for our friends and families.....this is all we know as all you know are the losers, so our outlook is different to yours
If the wife is also providing for the family, it becomes a lot easier. If you are the only one working while the wife does nothing, then that's stupid. Mojachie.
my friends from my party days used to say i was whipped but i would rather be whipped and take care of my family