Does anyone know a dating affiliate program which is not a scam and which is legit? Preferably one which isn't Friend Finder, as I'm looking for something with more than $4 per FREE sign up :\
hard to say, I only bumped into 2-4 (mostly 2$). Though you could get some extra profit by making a "catalog" of recommended dating sites and place a ppc search feed there, and get extra income from searches. (google - there is a bunch of ppc affiliates like promoheads.com, thegreenppc.com, etc., etc.)
Try adsmarket, Mate1 pays $4.23 per valid lead. There are plenty of dating affiliate programs but you should promote them via affiliate networks. So you won't get shaved directly. Also try AZoogle they have good dating offers all are high paying. Pay like $3.50 to $6 per lead. Cheers...!
Yes, our offers are only visible to accepted members of our network. You will have to sign up and be accepted to receive access to them.
I know that cupidmedia offer dating services, and they have separate sites for people from different geo regions. They also have affiliate program, not sure about the conditions though. You may check their site.