How do you love a girl who is somebody when you are a nothing? I want your opinion about this. Because....Right now I am a nothing. I also want to know how the same situation would be approached like in different countries. You know, in some countries it is very rigid. And in some countires it doesn't matter. -Aditya
You are definately in the wrong type of forum for this kind of stuff. but the first step is to stop putting yourself down and calling yourself a 'nothing' . Have some balls and show some confidence for gods sake.
How do you determine your value? Are you unemployed? Is that why you feel this way? A worthy person will love you back through thick and thin. If not, then they're not worth your time. And take an0n's advice.
I am sorry that I said I am a nothing. I should have never have said that. I am not unemployed. I am a student. I mean to say suppose if a person is a recluse, how does he "handle it"?
Try building your confidence up small by small each day. It's hard for someone thats been shy and likes isolation a lot but you should atleast give an effort to start trying to go out more or speaking up in public. Since you are a student, try speaking up in class more often.