I want to know what type of service or group do I have to join to get link exchanges like this http://www.howtobuyanengagementring.com/resources.php?x=9 ( i don't want to hypertext the site). I see a lot of sites having this links exchange.
I do not wanna say this but...I would recommend you to find one-way link or three-way link exchange instead of common link exchange. It is still work but not sure for a long run. If you really have to do link exchange, you should do it manually and avoid participate in such a network. More than half of this kind network are using similar pattern which easily to be identical. It could help you in short term but would harm more than help in a long term.
Concentrate on one-way links to your site. They're of much higher 'potency' for affecting the rankings than reciprocal links.
post your requirement at http://forums.digitalpoint.com/forumdisplay.php?f=53 you will get very fast response from this category.
Just pay attention, when you exchange links or obtain one-way links, the sites linking to you are relevant to your content. Also check how many external links on the linking to you page.
I know that reciprocal has little weight, but I see sights outranking me doing that. I just want to join a program like that.