you will only get payed if you sent real good traffic to them. I had bad experience with them. But I think a lot people have been paid by them cause they did sent good quality traffic.
Friendfinder.com is a legit program. To get paid, you should follow their terms. If you are promoting their CPL offer then I think you must get 1 lead per 20 clicks and 1 sale per 25 leads. If you opt for revenue share then no issues at all.
Hey dude ,, I did not put banner in my site .. so i m just referring directly through affiliate id ..Is that right ?
Yes, its not mandatory to put the banner on your site. You can also promote direct text link from friendfinder.com through mailer or PPC activities.
Please read this thread here http://forums.digitalpoint.com/showthread.php?t=2259463 They gave me a bad experience.