Can you treat her/him as friend?

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by bilal_4422, Feb 20, 2010.

  1. #1
    hey guys,
    I just wondering can you treat your ex-girlfriend / ex-boyfriend as a friend and keep in touch with her/him ?
     
    bilal_4422, Feb 20, 2010 IP
  2. 1associate

    1associate Peon

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    What is that to do with General Business? Was your ex your business partner? If that's what you're getting at - no way would I work with an ex it'd be a sure way of ruining any business. Of course there must be exceptions. Really, I think this should have been a thread in general chat.
     
    1associate, Feb 20, 2010 IP
  3. ghyper.com

    ghyper.com Peon

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    #3
    regardless of wrong category of post.. i would like to reply your question
    yes, we can consider ex..... as a friend or partner..
    its nearly possible that some persons may not fit in specific relations with one..but still one should give space to others in ones life..
    hope for the best :)
     
    ghyper.com, Feb 20, 2010 IP
  4. paradigmad

    paradigmad Peon

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    Wrong forum, but depending on how mature both of you are it can work but you will always have your history together that may come up and bite you down the road.
     
    paradigmad, Feb 20, 2010 IP
  5. 5starpix

    5starpix Notable Member

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    I still do. That's probably because we are both understanding of each other.
     
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  6. Mentalhead

    Mentalhead Active Member

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    Nope, they just get on my nerves reminding me how good it was before.
    But in some cases it can work, if you're truly over your ex and consider him only as a friend.
     
    Mentalhead, Feb 20, 2010 IP
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    samser_m Well-Known Member

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    no idea!

    I had one gf, now she is my wife lol :D
     
    samser_m, Feb 20, 2010 IP
  8. maha123

    maha123 Peon

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    ofcourse no i will never treat my ex-boyfrnd like a frnd never
     
    maha123, Feb 21, 2010 IP
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    I think its hard, and it depends on the person. We tried to be good friend but end up quarreling very often and since then, we never contacted each other until now (2 years) :)
     
    ads2help, Feb 21, 2010 IP
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    Yes I believe they can still be friends. Just like me and my ex :)
     
    cool_78, Feb 21, 2010 IP
  11. Words For You

    Words For You Well-Known Member

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    Hmm, an EX??
    Sounds pretty spicy and flaring on short term basis but down the road there will be;

    Snarls

    Cat Fights
    (MEeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeoowwww)

    Lonely Nights (even if ur current GF is with u)

    Haunting memories

    Tons of Tears
    (tears come later , sometimes you will be seeing ur current girl, being overshadowed by them and sometimes it will be you)

    On a serious note, i know someone will have his heart get hit at the right spot through my opinion. Believe me, EX girls or EX guys seem like a pretty fancy ride. You guys will have a lot to catch up to but later on, down the road it is just a game of cat and mouse.

    Your girl is with you, you cant disclose your EX to her, If you are a married guy, then NO way. If you are a person who has this sort of job which delves you into a situation where you have to work with the Dragon Lady, then i rather recommend you to have yourself shifted to a new place, a new branch or somewhere nice.

    There is always a temptation, considering the fact that you haven't been in touch with your girl for a while. One fine day, when the grass is glaringly appealing, the sky is blue and people are all smiley - it seems like a pleasant shock to see this EX right in front of you.

    But don't go for the same trip, save it for your current partner and make sure whatever chapters you closed in your life, just remained closed forever.

    Best o' Luck to ya'll
     
    Words For You, Feb 21, 2010 IP