I don't quite honestly want to keep paying for keywords... Done asmuch as I can without a SEO, but always end up paying someone to help me becasue I'm to much of an idiot to go 100% of the way.. help?
I agree with w3bmaster, read learn and experiment. I learned Seo through reading and got my site on the first page of Google for my main keyword for almost half a year, have 200 to 300 unique visit per day and earning hundreds per month from adsense. But the site is now lost on the first page, so I'm starting to read, learn and experiment again.
there's a lot of tutorial from the internet, you can search it in Google. try to search for seo ebook from known seo expert, learn the basic first and experiment it in your blog or website
I am creating an e-video to be out soon! It will help you! http://forums.digitalpoint.com/showthread.php?t=621352
Have a look at sphinn.com - it's like digg for webmasters, and is a good way of seeing what's up-to-date on SEO blogs; and because articles get voted for and commented on by other webmasters, you can see which blogs are held in respect for giving good information.
you realize your issue youself and the solution is that you need to start doing SEO. where do you start reading? how about this SEO section along with other sections at DP that has something to do with SEO, SE, link building, etc
you have to learn SEO step line by line.. do not wait to publish (upload) changes.. One you have selected the title for your page, make the change & publish the page. Once you have added effective tags to a page, then publish the page again.
Start with this link google.com/support/webmasters/bin/answer.py?hl=en&answer=35291 seomoz.org/article/bg1 webconfs.com/seo-tutorial/introduction-to-seo.php 100seotips.com