Hello, I've recently become involved with a girl that I've known for about six years. 2 Months in and we are still at that stage where we send silly soppy texts and messages to each other declaring how much we miss eachother. Although we have been doing this for 2 months we haven't started 'officially' going out yet. In 4 weeks time she is going to start training for the Territorial Army. I have been very supportive and encouraging as this is something she really wants to do. She said that when she completes the training she wants us to become a couple and have a relationship. I'm sort of worried that she will meet someone while she is there so I want to do some things so she won't forget me. When she completes her training I'm taking her to see a Chelsea football game as that is her team. I've also bought her an Ipod with her favourite music on it. I'd like to do some more things so she won't forget me while she is away. Any suggestions?
first of all, stop SPENDING MONEY on her. if girls started to remember guys because of money being spent on them, this world would be adifferent place. You gotta do something that she could never return and feels that she indebted to you..and that is by no means anything materialistic. Spend an AWESOME romantic/funny/silly day with her which she would never forget (hopefully) ... give her the hugs of her life, and the words everygirl dies for. make her feel exceptionally SPECIAL that day. She would never forget that and EVEN if she falls for a guy, she would restrain herself. ps: dont YOU dare break her heart at then end shouldn't end up she coming back single and finds you with some other girl ..that'd be too sad...for me to write this long post and obviously for her too cheers
I think you should give her more time. If at the training she finds somebody else then it is even better the bitch wasn't meant for you. You wouldn't want to spend your life with such a whore anyways. Its been two months already and you haven't yet banged her? you are one lazy mf. BTW have you ever tried man on man stuff? Maybe you should it is fun.
It depends on her. After she goes in her training, it is the time you can measure how much she is faithful and honest to you. Best wishes on your wedding soon.
Man you need to do something different here,first tell her you need to know if she is the right girl for you and go ahead and start dating before she goes into the army. "No need to wait for nothing" Don't buy her things she is using you most likley try to sit down and talk to her about whats going on and lay down the law.
i think if she have truly love for you she missed you during her training and this gap is a test for both of you if she comes and you involved with other girl think what happen so think positively and best of luck.
Spot on! Cheers Smith15 If you'd built your relationship on something called trust you wouldn't even think that way. Insecurity born out of possessiveness does some good! Express your insecurity feelings to your girl and she might actually love you more for what you think about her!
if you can contact her while she is in training,keep try contact her,do not spend money on her a lot..but keep in touch.you will remind her thats you are in love with her..
Smith15 has given you a perfect solution!! Do what he has mentioned and she'll never ever forget you...even if she finds someone better than you...she'll surely come back to you!!