How do You Handle Stress/Failure? Does Spiritualiy & Religion, and Humor help?

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  1. #1
    Do you think Jokes, watching Sports & movies etc may help us in distress and humor is best medicine?
     
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  2. jc_yusuke

    jc_yusuke Peon

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    they do. sometimes you have to unwind and forget about the stressfull stuffs in your life. spend some time alone or with friends, whichever makes you happy and comfortable.

    doing some things that'll satisfy you and will forget your worries indeed help.
    and also, trying to be possitive thinker.

    i do believe that laughter is the best medicine.
    life is too short to worry, enjoy every minute of't.


    :D
     
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    drugs and ice cream helps me:eek:
     
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    The Webmaster IdeasOfOne

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    A pleasent evening with my finacee would do the trick.

    (I got engaged :) yesterday)
     
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    Congratulations on your engagement...
     
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    DeniseJ Live, Laugh, Love

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    I journal a lot when I'm upset about something. Aside from that, trying to take my mind off of whatever has happened doesn't always work for me. Sometimes I just have to have a few days to cry, scream, whatever -- let it all out. Then I'm good. Most of the time, anyway.
     
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    I smoke a cigar and drink a beer ....
     
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    Your question: How do you handle stress/failure?

    Spirituality, religion and humor really do help you reduce stress in your life. Anything that can help you relax and take your mind off the thing that is stressing you out is a big part of getting through stressful moments.

    You will also want to look into what is stressing you out before the stress becomes something more serious. I have a simple technique for reducing stress: If it stresses me out, I remove it from my life. This I apply to people and situations in my life. Stress can kill you if you don't keep it in check.

    As for failure, well that is not a problem, if you want to do anything in life you have to be prepared to fail. Failure is an opportunity to go back to the drawing board. As long as you can pick yourself up (anything is possible) then other than hurting your pride, failure is part of learning. You fail doing something one way, you do it another (think Edison and the light bulb). Failure is where spirituality and religion really come into play because you WILL need all the help that you can get to pick yourself up.

    Here is an article that might interest you: http://www.levnow.com/Articles/6stepstorelievestress.htm & http://www.levnow.com/Articles/howtobesuccessful.htm There are also a couple more articles on this site...

    Good luck,

    PS
    I may not be able to tell you much about adsense, proxy IP address, rss feeds or anything techier (yes, I made it up) ;) than a two sentence definition on Wikapedia but I do know self-help and I am just happy I can answer a question on DP. :D
     
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    Thanks Tabs
    Yo!!! Lovely...Thanks Joe...
     
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    Jogging for 30 minutes is very relaxing for the mind.
    This is what I usually do when I'm stressed.
     
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    I play with my cat, and sometimes it helps to go walking. But it doesn't help to walk the cat, unfortunately.
     
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    listen to Slayer and bang you head like crazy. your stress (and memory) will gone soon
     
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    My husband says he 'doesn't do sympathy, he does jokes'. This is OK to a point, but you're not always in the mood for one-liners. Sometimes sympathy would be better.
     
    cloudybutnice, Aug 31, 2006 IP