So, It is like I am studying communication designing and in my college there are 90% girls and 10% boys. Because it is a fashion design college. I have been living with gals since 2 years now and know about their thoughts, what they like etc. etc. Yup. I am still and will be straight. So, If you want to know about girls ask me. I can especially help with indian gals of around 16-22 age. But all questions are welcome. I am ready to give free advices. Love is in the air Add me to your yahoo messenger: shail_Arihant
@ david: When you see a girl, glance only in her eyes once. Let her notice you too. Then look away. Then again see in her eyes for 2nd and 3rd time. If you everytime got an eye contact. Then it is a +ve sign for you. That means she also have crush on you. Go ahead and talk to her. Dont just stare her like a peverted guy. @ pipert: You need to tell me where you see that girl regularly. Is she in your college? Sorry. i dont get you.
What if you exchange a few words with a girl you like and after that you have nothing to talk about and its freaking quite? XD
How to talk to girls ? I don't have direct contact to girl but I talk to her on phone by messaging but the thing is i dont have anything to say to her so what should I do ?
@ Ichigo91: This usually happens when you talk with a girl you like. Actually, this happens with most of us. The main thing is how you speak not what you speak. You have to look confident while speaking. Girls definately like confident guys. In case you dont have to anything to say. Think of a topic there and then. You can speak about any person at that place like how funny he looks etc. etc. Dude, here is a tip for you. Notice her actions when you talk with her. If she looks interested in your talk, then she like to talk with you. If she looks at her watch or look anywhere else. Then forget and look another one. Always look in her eyes while you talk. Thats the easiest way to flirt. Or still you dont have anything to say. Just say to her that "Nice talking with you. I have to go some where very important.... So we will meet again. " This is the place where you can get her number too easily. Try to flirt but never flirt too much on the first day when you meet. @ Alex: Thats good that you already have her number. If you want to start a topic. Just close your eyes once and think of her and her friends, the place you met her etc. etc. You will automatically get a topic to chit chat on. You know the word "HI " (with a smile on face) is still the best word to start a conversation with a girl. And the second word "How are you?" which shows that you care about her.
Thats great i'll try it but its like am very shy that if i say something to her and if she doesnt likes to talk about it so for that what can i do ?
@Alex: Please dont be shy. Actually there is no reason to be. Go ahead and have a conversation with her. She will definately reply to it. In case she doesnt, try once more. If she doesnt, then forget and look for some other. There are many Add me to yahoo messenger. I will help you more.
@mrockz619: Oh, simple. Look her eyes, she will also look you. See in her eyes again and give a gentle smile. If she also smiles that means she is interested. If she is a shy girl, she will look down and look you again. Then also it means she is interested. When you talk with her, she looks interested. She will smile while looking in your eyes.
But what if she looks at your eyes and when she talks she tends to move her head/eyes elsewhere? does that mean she is not interested? or because she is nervous? or something else?
@ Ichigo91: Notice her while she is talking with you. If she is playing with her hairs or clothes or making some flirty actions. Then she is interested. If she is nervous or very shy , she will look somewhere else and look back in your eyes multiple times giving you a decent smile. If she is looking at her watch or looking somewhere else like gate or her friend only and she sounds as if she wants to get the conversation over. Then she is not interested. You will automatically understand what she wants while talking with her. Dont worry. @shivshan: Is she looks at her heels. She is not at all interested in you. But dont make mistake as she may be looking down because she is shy. As I said if she looks back to you in your eyes again and again . She likes you.