Love without Sex

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by Lukas Jackson, Jan 16, 2010.

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    Mostly people ask if what is to choose, either love or sex. But for me I want to ask this to everyone. Can you live with your love without sex for a long time? say about 4 year since you were not yet married.
     
    Lukas Jackson, Jan 16, 2010 IP
  2. dcristo

    dcristo Illustrious Member

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    #2
    why would you want to consider not having sex for 4 years? sounds like a bad nightmare!
     
    dcristo, Jan 16, 2010 IP
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    If you can't have it with the one you love you will get somewhere !
     
    biglegg, Jan 17, 2010 IP
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    Mentalhead Active Member

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    Yea it's possible, but I think that I couldn't do it. I could hold up at year or two without it,and if she's the right person for marriage why not do it then?
     
    Mentalhead, Jan 17, 2010 IP
  5. ISellMyITKnowledge

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    simple NO.

    Well it's possible but sooner or later you will need it..

    It refresh's your relationship - simple as that..
     
    ISellMyITKnowledge, Jan 17, 2010 IP
  6. CountryBoy

    CountryBoy Prominent Member

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    Most people are happy to have sex outside marriage nowadays, so it probably wouldn't be 4 years of abstainance.
     
    CountryBoy, Jan 17, 2010 IP
  7. Gtoo

    Gtoo Banned

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    Depends on the person. Some people don't feel sex is that important, but others like myself feel it is very important.
     
    Gtoo, Jan 17, 2010 IP
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    XTR3M3 XPL01T3R Active Member

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    Not only me, most people cant live without sex :D Its a mandatory in everyone's life :D lol
     
    XTR3M3 XPL01T3R, Jan 17, 2010 IP
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    Sex without love may be possible, but the reverse would be tough.
     
    nks, Jan 17, 2010 IP
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    sex with our lover is a part of love, dont u think. :D
     
    nura235, Jan 17, 2010 IP
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    No i stay withy girls 2 months without sex if afther 2 months they don't5 want sex i breack up with her

    I don't understand how somebody stays with a girl for such long time without sex ...
     
    w3bmaster, Jan 17, 2010 IP
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    CountryBoy Prominent Member

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    Masturbation?
    Surely you know that.
     
    CountryBoy, Jan 17, 2010 IP
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    #13
    Wow, thats pretty harsh buddy
     
    5starpix, Jan 17, 2010 IP
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    No sex for 4 years? Oh NOOOO. The longest I ever went without it was for a year, and that was by choice, because I had just gone through a bad breakup and didn't want to be with anyone like that. But I will NEVER do that to myself again. It was torture. So if a year for me was absolute hell, I don't even want to think about what 4 would be like. I'd be ready to jump off a cliff or something. LOL.
     
    PhicktionalDiva, Jan 17, 2010 IP
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    It is quite tough, isn' it? :rolleyes:;)
     
    5starpix, Jan 17, 2010 IP
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    for me , i do sex with love.. but sometime, love will correcting my feeling to have sex. I got no sex but i have love. but for 4 years of marriage without sex... i will ask for divorce!!
     
    SusanJ, Jan 17, 2010 IP
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    I can't imagine sex without love and vise versa. Sex between lovers is a way to show affection and intimacy.
    When you are in love, naturally you will want to have sex with that person.
     
    Organs, Jan 17, 2010 IP
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    if Love was a Journey ! Sex is Just a Station !!

    Cheers
    Josh
     
    joshuthomas, Jan 17, 2010 IP
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    If you can stay in a relationship with someone of the oppisite sex without having sex for 4 years you're either a teenager, a senior citizen, or gay.
     
    joebert, Jan 18, 2010 IP
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    yes of course i can live i meet my love once in month because we are still not get married but when i met her i just saw in her eyes and feel her love but not touch her in the way of sex:)
     
    tockio, Jan 18, 2010 IP