Do you still think we ? its a controversial topic... i am an indian but the things that hurt me the most is the "castesism", we are living in an independant country and everyone has a right to speak up, share, make friends but when it comes to marrige..... we are all human!! not everyone is perfect...what if you fall in LOVE with someone from the other cast... simple answer is "there is nothing that you can do". i love india but what the feedback from the people is so categorised that they will consider you... not by your identity but through your origin.. now is this my free INDIA.
Lol James first of all i wanna ask you. did u fall in luv w/ some other caste gurl? cuz i've same issue here.. haha but yeah you are right in some points.. there are lot many people who think that castism and this rich poor should be outta but like its the normal mentality that prevails in india and we really cant help just you be normal be different from other start avoiding that castism and thats the only way other people will learn.. i m with you for this
pandit.... i am punjabi... is that my fault... The problem is that parents are not willing to understand the same..... even if you are earning well or not.. you need a biradari tag! I hate ppls with this concept... and i am lucky that my parents are not like that.
Here are a couple of questions from an American who works around many Indians: Is the attitude changing at all? How would I know if two Indians are of a different caste? I did listen to an American born Indian have many conversations with his mother last year about his singleness. They really pressured him to find a wife. It was somewhat entertaining as we could laugh with him about the situation. He got married two months ago with celebrations here and in two Indian cities.
Well I'm an Indian...and things are definitely changing here. The thing is that you've to change them....just don't blame on casteism. That's past. We're the new generation and we are the future. It's we who have to bring a change. I have Sikh girlfriend. Am a hindu. So what? I give a damn what our society thinks of it. It's my life and i'll decide about it. I definitely respect my parents, but once said and done, they respect my decision too. If i wanna marry my gal, i'll do that without any objections from others. And you've to fight with your society so that they respect your decisions. Your parents would never agree until they believe that what you're doing is right. Make them feel so
i beleive in my self but what to do !!! if you are the only man standing...your are going against those with whome you wana start up relations... tahts teh issue.
problem is frm the other end... and you know what types of girls we do have in india.... the only thing they say is jaisa dady kahege
Lol! I know. But if you got my point, then get this point in the girl's head too. And is she stills disagrees, I'm afraid, the coversation ends here. In that case she doesn't deserve your love and sacrifices All the best. Hope she understands and fights for the same. God bless you!
Yaaaawwwn.. castism is not gonna end until they ask for reservation.. end the reservation castism will die..