i would go for a template with a more feminine appeal. the color scheme isn't bad but the header looks alittle rustic. maybe more pink and yellow colors could brigten it up. i would also ease up on the adsense and get more quality content. not a bad start
After looking at it again I agree with the colors. Some yellows and girly pinks on the header should spice it up. As for the adsense I will keep those as is as adsense is the focus on this and on my other sites that use the same template. the template is easy to use and modify. See this site for example. Here is another. I have many more but I'd rather no list them all. One of many sites. Thanks!
They are the same theme. Flexi-blue can be downloaded here You'll just need to modify the header,css, etc to your liking.
1) I agree, the template doesn't appeal to the female audience. 2) On the sidebar, it said, "Shopping For Tunics?" then the google ads. You need to change the background for the google ads to blend in with the side bar. The white google ads background is shouting out ads, not what you want at all. 3) You need to wrap your content around the main ads, so it will blend in with the rest of the page. you are trying to trick the user into clicking on the google ads. hope this helps