My parents separated when I was 7 & I went with my dad (because I was very close to him), while my brother went with my mom (because he was very close to her). However, as much as I completely love my dad (he is perfection in all its grandeur to me, he died when I was 18), I cannot choose between both my parents because my mom, despite her flaws, is a good mother & always tries her best to provide us with our needs. She'll never be my dad (whom I was very close to & whom I loved so much), but she will always be my mother, & I love her too.
Love...you are so deep ! I wish all men were as gentle and sentimental as you are ! I have always been closer to my mom...she is my best friend. My dad passed away when I was 15. I do love and miss him.
Mom to me! She's been extremely loving and a very good listener. Quite the contrary, I dread to go and speak heart to heart with my father!
Aww thanks, I'm a girl though. (For a guy to be this in touch with his emotions would be pretty much just wishful thinking LOL)
My 5 year old just got to the turning point where he loves us both the same, yes, he said that yesterday. The other boys choose their mom and our daughter would probably say me.
~ From the other side for the unfortunate as having a masochistic (alcoholic) father the choice is simple and whether to applaud the need for both debatable for some....