Im getting married to a man who i dont know. i meat him once when i was only a month old we have talked on the phone recently and he seems nice but i idk what to do wait and hope and find someone on my own or marry him and hope it works out for the best i need advice please
wait and hope you find someone, if you're not sure you want to marry someone then you just shouldnt, you should be a 100% sure you want to marry them before you do
- If you are being given a choice, at least delay the wedding and get to know the guy....and how old are you?????
~ Over the hill at 25, tell the arrangers to get lost....find one yourself or "chose" the one above after dinner.
At least get to know the man. You must be curious a little. How old is he? If you don't think he is the one, then go get the one that is. Choose your own destiny.
So, you're being forced to get married? Talk to your family or your minister...You sound miserable and fearful...
Woah.. run away or something.. come back a year later, it'll blow off by then.. Your parents will just be glad you're back & wouldn't even remember all that.
Is he going to beat you if you make your own choices, I think would be a key question. Ask him how he responds to disappointments.
that sucks stand up and say you are not marrying a person you dont know i know its probably a cultural thing to do with your location but your personal conviction has to overide your family or cultural beliefs even if that means going against what your family wants. just ask them do you want me to be happy? Bcos to be happy i need to live my life for myself meet the person i want to marry instead of being told to marry someone. A loving parents goal is normally to do anything that would make their child happy in life They can be more proud knowing their child has learnt for themselves rather than been forced to do something that if you approach it with negative feelings will probably will not work out well anyway