Personal Issue Assistance

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by HJITechnologiesLLC, Oct 12, 2009.

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  1. #1
    So yea, as the topic say's, I'm kind of having some troubles right now. So here's the breakdown.

    In my Biology class, there is this Indian/Nepal Chick that I car pool with everyday. So, I've heard that she liked me and I too like her, but problem is, I just found out that she moved in with a guy that she dated 9 years ago and is now living with him. DOES THIS MAKE ANY SENSE?!?!!? She know's I like her and our other friend's want us to date, and so do I, and I know she does too...

    But this... all of a sudden. Now everytime I look at her, I just get so pissed all of a sudden... I just don't even like looking at her nor talking to her anymore. She calls me all the time, but my hands for some reason don't hit the 'Talk' button... I either let it go to my voicemail or answer and just ask what she wants and then hang up...

    I really don't know what to do.. Leave her, or just continue being friend's with her or ???

    Thank you. :) (Btw, She is 23 and I'm 19. She looks like a 16 year old though. lol She is kinda short, skinny and typical indian type girl. I go to University btw)
     
    HJITechnologiesLLC, Oct 12, 2009 IP
  2. Helvetii

    Helvetii Notable Member

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    #2
    Come On, Aren't there better chicks in Texas?
     
    Helvetii, Oct 13, 2009 IP
  3. HJITechnologiesLLC

    HJITechnologiesLLC Well-Known Member

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    #3
    I got the issue resolved. I'm over her now.

    Time for a new chick. haha
     
    HJITechnologiesLLC, Oct 13, 2009 IP
  4. powerlifer

    powerlifer Active Member

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    #4
    couldnt have been that big an issue lol.

    but yeah man up, if you want her then tell her if you dont then dont:D.
     
    powerlifer, Oct 13, 2009 IP
  5. HJITechnologiesLLC

    HJITechnologiesLLC Well-Known Member

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    She said she WOULD have gone out with if I was a little more older, that really pissed me off. lol But I thought, I can't do much about that, might as well keep the friendship with her. She really is a great person to know.
     
    HJITechnologiesLLC, Oct 13, 2009 IP
  6. jelba

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    Nice! Friends are always great! :)
     
    jelba, Oct 13, 2009 IP
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    belongus3 Active Member

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    Are you sure you can just be friends with her if you say you like her ?
     
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  8. HJITechnologiesLLC

    HJITechnologiesLLC Well-Known Member

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    I'm over her mate. It's always hard for me to go back to being friend's after I pass the 'friendship' stage in the first place. She is the type of girl who will make you feel special, even as a friend. I wasn't the one who passed the stage in the first place, I was told that she liked me and all that stuff, so I opened myself to her not knowing what will happen after... Oh well, time to move on.
     
    HJITechnologiesLLC, Oct 13, 2009 IP
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    powerlifer Active Member

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    #9
    everyone needs friends lol so yeah:).
     
    powerlifer, Oct 13, 2009 IP
  10. HJITechnologiesLLC

    HJITechnologiesLLC Well-Known Member

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    Friend's are just as important as having a girlfriend. :)
     
    HJITechnologiesLLC, Oct 13, 2009 IP
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    digitalduke Notable Member

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    We are glad you guys become friends. By the way, is she from Nepal or India?
     
    digitalduke, Oct 13, 2009 IP
  12. HJITechnologiesLLC

    HJITechnologiesLLC Well-Known Member

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    She is FROM Nepal, but she is half-indian as well, or so I was told.
     
    HJITechnologiesLLC, Oct 13, 2009 IP
  13. Project Mobius

    Project Mobius Peon

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    #13
    why are there so many people posting their personal crap / issues here? don't you have real friends to get help from? and its your problem, fix it yourself like a man and stop acting like a baby
     
    Project Mobius, Oct 13, 2009 IP
  14. HJITechnologiesLLC

    HJITechnologiesLLC Well-Known Member

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    #14
    You have you opinion and I have mine. I can post where ever I want, so if you don't have nothing good to say, don't bother saying it.
     
    HJITechnologiesLLC, Oct 13, 2009 IP
  15. Project Mobius

    Project Mobius Peon

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    #15
    i posted my opinion, i can post where ever i want. So if you don't like what I say then that is too bad.
     
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  16. HJITechnologiesLLC

    HJITechnologiesLLC Well-Known Member

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    #16
    You really don't need to be a asshat. :rolleyes: Looks like someone else is having their own share of issues. Run along now.
     
    HJITechnologiesLLC, Oct 13, 2009 IP
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    Oh nice one, everyone has their own issues, who doesn't? At least I don't post my issues here and ask for help, I have friends offline for that. :rolleyes:
     
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    - That may be something to be resolved for future endeavors in understanding the opposite sex as being able to distance yourself from your emotions...."even as a friend" is no relationship at all.
     
    Breeze Wood, Oct 13, 2009 IP
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