Hey, I have a problem I have a girlfriend and next year or in (2) years I want her to be my fiance. (or w/e i want to be engaged to her). And I was with my band and I went up to order food for us. And then, the counter girl seen me and fixed her hair and make-up. And then, She said "So, you play guitar". Since she seen my guitar". And I said yeah. So, we was talking and etc. And She was flirting with me. It was embarrassing because I kept on studdaring and chocking up on my words because she was so hot. And I didn't look @ her much cuz i was blushing and shy alot o_o. And she gave me her # when I left. But, I have a girlfriend and she is perfect >_<! And hot, too? Is this just a normal thing? Or just a fan? or something? She was seriously hot O_O! PLEASE GIVE ME ADVICE >_<!
See, that's why boys cheat. You have a good looking and loving girlfriend but you're still doubting about meeting with another girl. Maybe you shouldn't get married yet, let the time decide if you're made for each other. Because let's say you get married...you'll see hot girls everyday, and they will talk nicely to you. What will do, chase them all?
I think you should be very honest to her, because when see that your are thinking about her , see will get you and start loving you. I think you have to decide first to which one is good for you. than start every thing with that girl, i think it is ok for you. Best of luck.
Be careful.. you never know what the new girl is thinking.. but you do know what your gf is thinking.. just remember.. you never know what you've lost till it's gone.
My advice : Stick to what you have (since you said you want here to be your fiance) You never know whats going to happen with the new girl. Cheers.
If you're in a band, you're always going to get chicks hitting on you and flirting with you. That's nothing new. It's meaningless. If you're really in love with your girlfriend and she's in love with you and you want to marry her, it shouldn't matter who is making eyes at you, no matter how hot she is. What you're really asking yourself right now is possibly if you are ready for the next step of asking your girlfriend to marry you. It's scary for anyone! I'd take time to consider what you truly want before you pop the question. Haha unless you're both into swinging then all bets are off and you can have your cake and eat it too.
Christ...I thought you had an actual problem but after reading this thread it seems you are just lacking a mature level of boundaries. However I will break it down for you my friend! The counter girl/waitress obviously just wants to hook up with you because you have high social value. That is you are in a band and already have a girl. You do not seem confident as you are unable to deal with her flirting and it seems you lack the ability to say outright "No." to her. Chances are if she did fuck you she would not stay around. Your current relationship would be destroyed. The grass is always greener on the other side. It is very normal for the animalistic part of the mans brain to be tempted to go for a hot woman. But do you really want to risk destroying your relationship and hurting a woman whom you love dearly and want to commit to just for some woman who wants you just because you play guitar? You already know what the right thing is to do. I hope you will be able to push any other woman who advance on you aside much easier next time. By the way how would you feel if it was the situation was flipped and your woman was getting the number of a hot counter guy? hmmm something for you to think about.
all hot girls look bad when they grow old, that's all i'm going to say. Hopefully you are smart enough to get what I'm trying to say
I still say you neuter yourself, if not for the fact that you considering cheating on your girlfriend with someone you barely know because she 'got pretty' for you, but for the overuse of emoticons.
Poor guy! Something kind of crossing road. On the one hand, you are young and you have right to go after or flurt with other girls as you will. On the other hand, you want your present girlfirend to be loyal and faithful towards you, for which you of course have to make some sacrifice. So, dilemma, right? Think deep, and ask yourself what life you really want and make your decision. After all, you are not living in a society allowing polygamy.
hello dear, The whole world is full with hot chicks. you cant live your whole life without true love . just try to find true love in your girlfriend. rest of all you know very well. Thanks Danny
hey that's a test on your loyalty to your girlfriend... If you pass on it you really love your girlfriend...... Goodluck!