is marriage is necessary for everyone

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by kainrazial, Aug 25, 2009.

  1. #1
    for the past 1 week i am under presuure from my dad,they comple me to finish marriage in next 1 month, i am totally not interted with marriage, i dont want any commiment, i always want to be a free one,

    i want to know is marriage is compulsury one or not,
     
    kainrazial, Aug 25, 2009 IP
  2. indyguidedotinfo

    indyguidedotinfo Notable Member

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    don't ever get married because you are forced into it. .that would make the whole marriage stressful and have no love..

    find a person to love and build it from there..
     
    indyguidedotinfo, Aug 25, 2009 IP
  3. ewebf.com

    ewebf.com Peon

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    Well depends from what perpective religiously I think it's needed so you can bang the girl just saying.

    I mean if you truly love her you would marry and commit to her.
     
    ewebf.com, Aug 25, 2009 IP
  4. HayHay

    HayHay Peon

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    It is not compulsory but it is good and the life is better than before provided the partner is good.
     
    HayHay, Aug 25, 2009 IP
  5. wpcorner

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    it should not be forced on you mate so if you dont want to marry the girl you are with then don't ever give in to just letting other people or in your case your dad to tell you what to do with your life
     
    wpcorner, Aug 25, 2009 IP
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    AC-Coach Peon

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    Do what makes you happy mate. I know religious aspects come into play, but persoanlly I would never get married unless...

    1) I love the person

    2) I 100% WANT to marry the person
     
    AC-Coach, Aug 25, 2009 IP
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    cool_78 Guest

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    It should be your decision to make and yours only. Do not let anyone pressure you into getting married because of, I guess in your case tradition perhaps?
     
    cool_78, Aug 25, 2009 IP
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    xwhyz Active Member

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    If you feel not interested then it is not compulsory, you should think twice before deciding on to get married as it is not a child's play to get involved with without interest
     
    xwhyz, Aug 25, 2009 IP
  9. Susanjia

    Susanjia Banned

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    #9
    Maybe you have not find the one you love so you don't want to marry.
     
    Susanjia, Aug 26, 2009 IP
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    #10
    if your mind is like a preist marriage is un necessary, but if your mind is like every common man marriage is necessary.
     
    narendra007, Aug 26, 2009 IP
  11. Susan Zhang

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    #11
    People fall in love and then they want to marry.
    Find a girl you like first.
     
    Susan Zhang, Aug 26, 2009 IP
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    gsv13 Well-Known Member

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    #12
    don't just marry because your family forced it to. Run away!
     
    gsv13, Aug 26, 2009 IP
  13. kainrazial

    kainrazial Well-Known Member

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    thanks for rep, guys but u guys living in abroad, i am from india, we had more religion issues regarding tat , we cannt choose our partners, only parents will choose the girl and we have to marry, sad :mad::mad:
     
    kainrazial, Aug 26, 2009 IP
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    well, if that`s the case then, ask your parents to find a good girl for you.
    thereafter you can always find some flaws in her....if indeed you`re not interested in marrying right now!

    you can tell you parents that this girl is not well educated...or, that girl doesn`t look too good....:rolleyes:
     
    erolelcott, Aug 26, 2009 IP
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    yudi Well-Known Member

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    Marriage is a union of 2 bodies and souls. Marriage is a necessity and the pillar on which an individual matures into an adult thereby adding value to himself and the society as a whole. For both - men and women, its the journey towards achieving maturity.
     
    yudi, Aug 26, 2009 IP
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    it career Notable Member

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    Are you from india ? if yes make sure to read http://498a.co.in/ on how to avoid getting a 498a wife at first place.
     
    it career, Aug 26, 2009 IP
  17. Ice

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    Do you have gamophobia or just do not love the person you are expected to marry?
    Someone say that marriage will make one more mature due to responsibility. And it is also said that marriage is the tomb of love. Anyhow, you are the master of your life, you have the final say for your marriage.
     
    Ice, Aug 26, 2009 IP
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    dipal76 Well-Known Member

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    Marriage is necessary in life.
    After marriage your life will change.
    If you like your life partner then you try for marriage.
     
    dipal76, Aug 26, 2009 IP
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    No not really but its depends if your going to be 100% Committed to it.
     
    SirusDesigner, Aug 26, 2009 IP
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    Man up dude! You always have a choice in life.

    Do you really want to get married just because your parents want you to? Even though it will potentially make you very very unhappy for the rest of your life? You parents think that is best for you?

    Tell your parents you will get married someday but on your terms. You should go out and start dating now... that way it will help set your parents mind at ease and it will be fun and a great learning experience for you.
     
    StevieHawk, Aug 26, 2009 IP