Getting a Divorce

Well, those of you who know me well here on Digital Point may have noticed that I am not posting as often (or really at all.) This is because life has been really hectic for me as my husband and I have decided to get a divorce.

Just posting this hoping for some cheer and well wishes. Divorce sucks. I no longer love my husband, but this does not make it any easier.

I am now finding more time for Digital Point and am needing some money so I will probably be offering more services within the next few days as I clear my head.

 

What can I say, that is life. But one advice, please do not Fuck over your husband as women in a divorce have the full advantage. This is from personal observations and experience.

But I bet you are a nice girl/woman/single

 

Haha, no. I won't do that to him. I still care about him, I just no longer love him. He gets the house (I am back at my parents for now) and I get the debt and the cats. He got the better deal because I am really broke and have a ton of bills to pay, haha! I just don't have to make the house payment on a house I hate!

 

Debt is 1 of the main causes of divorce these days, was that part of the reason for your divorce if you don't mind me asking?

 

Sorry to here of your divorce Melbel. I know it's hard because I've been through one myself.

I wish you all the best for a happy new beginning in your life

Regards

 

It was part of the reason, although not the major part.

 

So he married with you only because of your money sucks

 

A divorce? Sorry to hear that. I remember when you were posting pictures of your wedding dress...

 

I am also divorced 2 months ago

 

This is why i be having second thoughts about marriage.

 

It is always sad to hear the love is over. Where does all that energy go?

 

Good luck! May you be happy!

 

I don't think that getting divorced is good thing. How can you think about to leave your life partner ?

 

I think there must be something wrong which caused this.

I hope for the best for you.

 

You should try to quickly forget this episode by concentrating on work/other things. I know its not easy to do this but its for your own good. Best of luck for your future!

 

Well Melbel that is the end of that chapter of your life. I hope you and your ex view this as a learning experience and that with this experience you will find new people who can make you both even happier.

 

I'm really sorry, Melbel - been through it once, another lifetime ago, and although at the time both of us hurt like hell, a lot of anger and resentment, life went on and we're both immeasurably happier (last time I talked with my ex was over 10 years ago - she was doing great, having found the life she wanted, and so had I). Life is long, and I hope you, too, look back on this time as only a distant, relatively painless memory. Peace and best wishes.

 

I could suggest you a book to read and think about, maybe it can help you in some way: The Secret of Family Happiness.
You can find it in mp3 here: http://www.jw.org/index.html?option=QrYQZRQVNlBBX

This book helped me a lot.

 

I just broke up with my girlfriend from a relationship of two years a few months ago. It was a very ugly period for me. I don`t want to even imagine what would happen after a divorce from a 10-15 years of a relationship or more.

 

awww....I'm sorry to hear the melbel divorce is tough. Starting a new beginning is rough but it pays off eventually. Good luck and wish you all the best