Guys have huge fears of being rejected. It is naturally programmed into us. If a guy goes up and starts talking to a girl and she blows him out his confidence and self esteem will take a huge hit. So the guy will not want to approach again to protect his ego. Not only that any other woman who sees this will also become unattracted to that male. Hot girls are more socially adept. Lets be conservative and say that a hot girl gets hit on 5 times a day when she goes out and this happens 4 times a week. That is 20 new social interactions a week she is having. Lets say she started getting hit on when she was 19 and is now 24 that is 5 years * 52 weeks in a year * 20 interactions a week = 5200 social interactions with guys. These kind of girls will know how to blow guys out within seconds. I bet most of the guys on the forum have had less than 10 women approach them. A guy with little success has a huge up hill battle to reach stage of attracting good looking women. Just prepare a few interesting conversation starters that you can use to start a conversation with women. E.G. "Hey guys, who do you think cheat more...men or women?" I'm sure this is a topic they will enjoy. Do not have any goals in mind when you meet a woman. Just go out and have fun. If you are having fun she will want to join you.
So... you don't think women fear rejection too? It works both ways. As far as your comment about another woman immediately rejecting a guy because she watched another woman reject him, that's complete B.S. Unless the guy was blown off for a legitimate reason (he was being an asshole or whatnot,) another woman will not automatically reject him just because someone else blew him off.
Asking a question "How to attract a girl????" is more like the question "How to make money online????". Dude...you can understand, it's not that easy . Better you have an arrange marriage, if you're aged enough .
one of big misunderstanding of Indian view point, Indians like virgin girl to marry, but not in EU, US and many other country. imagine if your arranged marriage wife would like to watch "Maa TV" and you are a fan of Mtv ??? first of we Indians should dumb this family involvement on our personal life.
Breaking news: Indian Student attacked by Australian. What are you trying to say?? You have a very strange opinion in most matters. I remember you complaining the closing of savita babhi . com
something i don't agree in my country #1 arranged marriage this should be personal matter, marry a girl/guy after some dating #2 closing savita bhabi . com first of shut down all brothels in slums #3 caste look that villages, still there some worthless caste systems, at least in marriage btw, it will be off topic specking on Indian view, have to start new thread for it.
Of course women have a fear of rejection...but when it is the guy approaching the woman for the first time she will have the power to reject him. He is approaching her because he is attracted to her and he is putting his nuts on the line. Some girls reject guys just for a quick ego boost. If it was the woman approaching the guy of course she will have fear of rejection but how often do women approach guys? If you are in a club surrounded by people and you see a group of girls push a guy away or walk away from him how will you know if the reasons or legitimate or not? Either way this guy has just lost social value and is now a lot less attractive. This makes it easier for girls in surrounding area to blow him out.
1.Smile at her when you daily looks at first time. Girl need Love. 2.Don't make her to afraid by follow or propose in short time. Girl need Security. 3.Help others even pets...Girl need care. 4.Talk about love, sex, female problems, personal things etc. Girl need friendship. 5.Go to party or movie with her. But Don't touch her. Girl need honest. 6.Don't propose for long your love to her. Most probably she will do. Girl need you.
Beat up her current boyfriend and she will fall madly in love with you instantly and you will live happily ever after.
I am appalled at the number of people who think money is necessary to attract women. Y'all will be attracting the WRONG kind of women if money is their only concern.
Don't put so much pressure on your self. Be yourself and most importantly use common sense. I like a guy that can hold his on in a conversation, without being pushy or rude. Use your manners. Its a lost art these days or so it seems when I look at the kids in the neighborhood. I'm glad I grew up in a time where they were considered part of our education. that made me sound really old didn't it?